Bruce Lindfield
12-03-2002, 04:34 AM
I thought the following post by Steve Lawson, in a recent debate, really deserved a wider reading as it states very clearly and in a non-patronisng manner, how the age of posters can have an impact on what they are saying.
I think that this maybe needs to be part of a FAQ on this subject - explaining the issues like this, may lead to less acrimony in debates where this comes up. Here's the post :
"Originally posted by Steve Lawson
See, the problem here is that age does matter. It's not the only factor in assessing someone's posts, but there are definite trends. Older people aren't immune from posting nonsense (just have a look around the site for 5 minutes), and younger people can have insight the belies their years (I have some 12-16 year old students that I learn things from...), but the simple fact is that at the age of 15 you have never lived on your own, held down a job, had a long term meaningful relationship (certainly not one that in your mid 20s you'll look back on as meaningful anyway), you still live with your parents so there are a lot of responsibilities in life that you don't need to deal with. Which is great, that's the joy of being 15. Stay that way as long as you can! However, in terms of life experience, developing problem solving skills, learning the process of rational argument, discussion and maturing in your understanding of what you know and how that fits into the greater scheme of things, you are very very unlikely to have done enough of that for your age to be utterly insignificant in assessing what you write.
That doesn't give anyone the right to patronise you, or to put you down for it - common courtesy is something that everyone deserves from birth til death, but it does mean that if you're doling out advice, I'm going to be wondering what kind of experience is informing it, where you've picked it up from, and what it is that behind your thinking. When someone who is 15 tells me that they prefer the 'hands on' route to musical enlightenment, I'll tell them in no uncertain terms, that while that's fun and valid and an excellent way to spend your evenings with your mates if you just wanna have fun, in terms of the ratio of time invested to musical knowledge gleaned - however you choose to measure the value of musical knowledge - you will learn a hell of a lot more, to a deeper level, and much much quicker if you do some study, if you put off the quick buzz of jamming on a half-assed blues with your mates for a few hours in order to work on some material relating to playing the blues. If you get some shapes and patterns and sequences under your fingers to give yourself a fighting chance of coming up with something of your own that's worth listening to... That's not patronising, it's just the way it is. I have never met a genius musician who was 15. I've met some great students who are 15, some people who are building themselves a great future by learning, soaking up all they can. People who are making a much better job of that than I did, and as a result could easily end up doing far more exciting things with the bass that I have... That's what it's about...
The anonimity of the net is both great and a problem - it means that the notion of respecting the wisdom of the elders is disappearing from society. That's a bad thing. That doesn't mean that all old people talk sense, but that they have experienced a lot more, and what they say comes from somewhere... The best response I can come up with is to ask people to qualify what they say other than by just shouting at me that it's their opinion and they are entitled to it. There's a lot of that goes on on here, and has gone on in this thread - 'hey, it's my opinion, leave me alone!' - problem with that arises when your opinion is out of step with ALL the experience of just about every musician who ever lived. The wise 15 year old would stop and say 'oh, OK, even though this seems to be working for me, perhaps I ought to have a listen to these guys who've been teaching and playing longer than I've been alive, and perhaps have something useful to tell me.' Believe me, if you take this seriously, it could be the best thing you ever read (until you buy yourself a copy of The Inner Game Of Music, or The Road Less Travelled.)
Being 15 is great, I wish I was 15 again, honestly. But you've got a heck of a lot to learn, so when a whole shedload of people come along with more experience than you, willing to share with you some of their own experience, listen to it. I'm not trying to dump this on you. Honest. I don't know you. And I'm not trying to say that just mucking about with your mates in the garage isn't a fine way to make music - it is, look at the Stooges - but it's not an efficient, accurate or reliable way to 'learn' music. That takes some study and application. The choice, once again is all yours. You are responsible, and answerable to no-one but yourself. Your call.
cheers
Steve
www.steve-lawson.co.uk
www.solobassnetwork.org.uk
www.pillowmountainrecords.co.uk
I think that this maybe needs to be part of a FAQ on this subject - explaining the issues like this, may lead to less acrimony in debates where this comes up. Here's the post :
"Originally posted by Steve Lawson
See, the problem here is that age does matter. It's not the only factor in assessing someone's posts, but there are definite trends. Older people aren't immune from posting nonsense (just have a look around the site for 5 minutes), and younger people can have insight the belies their years (I have some 12-16 year old students that I learn things from...), but the simple fact is that at the age of 15 you have never lived on your own, held down a job, had a long term meaningful relationship (certainly not one that in your mid 20s you'll look back on as meaningful anyway), you still live with your parents so there are a lot of responsibilities in life that you don't need to deal with. Which is great, that's the joy of being 15. Stay that way as long as you can! However, in terms of life experience, developing problem solving skills, learning the process of rational argument, discussion and maturing in your understanding of what you know and how that fits into the greater scheme of things, you are very very unlikely to have done enough of that for your age to be utterly insignificant in assessing what you write.
That doesn't give anyone the right to patronise you, or to put you down for it - common courtesy is something that everyone deserves from birth til death, but it does mean that if you're doling out advice, I'm going to be wondering what kind of experience is informing it, where you've picked it up from, and what it is that behind your thinking. When someone who is 15 tells me that they prefer the 'hands on' route to musical enlightenment, I'll tell them in no uncertain terms, that while that's fun and valid and an excellent way to spend your evenings with your mates if you just wanna have fun, in terms of the ratio of time invested to musical knowledge gleaned - however you choose to measure the value of musical knowledge - you will learn a hell of a lot more, to a deeper level, and much much quicker if you do some study, if you put off the quick buzz of jamming on a half-assed blues with your mates for a few hours in order to work on some material relating to playing the blues. If you get some shapes and patterns and sequences under your fingers to give yourself a fighting chance of coming up with something of your own that's worth listening to... That's not patronising, it's just the way it is. I have never met a genius musician who was 15. I've met some great students who are 15, some people who are building themselves a great future by learning, soaking up all they can. People who are making a much better job of that than I did, and as a result could easily end up doing far more exciting things with the bass that I have... That's what it's about...
The anonimity of the net is both great and a problem - it means that the notion of respecting the wisdom of the elders is disappearing from society. That's a bad thing. That doesn't mean that all old people talk sense, but that they have experienced a lot more, and what they say comes from somewhere... The best response I can come up with is to ask people to qualify what they say other than by just shouting at me that it's their opinion and they are entitled to it. There's a lot of that goes on on here, and has gone on in this thread - 'hey, it's my opinion, leave me alone!' - problem with that arises when your opinion is out of step with ALL the experience of just about every musician who ever lived. The wise 15 year old would stop and say 'oh, OK, even though this seems to be working for me, perhaps I ought to have a listen to these guys who've been teaching and playing longer than I've been alive, and perhaps have something useful to tell me.' Believe me, if you take this seriously, it could be the best thing you ever read (until you buy yourself a copy of The Inner Game Of Music, or The Road Less Travelled.)
Being 15 is great, I wish I was 15 again, honestly. But you've got a heck of a lot to learn, so when a whole shedload of people come along with more experience than you, willing to share with you some of their own experience, listen to it. I'm not trying to dump this on you. Honest. I don't know you. And I'm not trying to say that just mucking about with your mates in the garage isn't a fine way to make music - it is, look at the Stooges - but it's not an efficient, accurate or reliable way to 'learn' music. That takes some study and application. The choice, once again is all yours. You are responsible, and answerable to no-one but yourself. Your call.
cheers
Steve
www.steve-lawson.co.uk
www.solobassnetwork.org.uk
www.pillowmountainrecords.co.uk