yep, i have had an ampeg svt 4 head shipped to me for $400 ... and it arrived dent on the sides. the ebay seller never responded to my inquiries and insurance claim requests. i was still nice enough to leave him a neutral feedback lol
as for basses, i usually pay $200 + taxes (sometimes they are good, but most of the time, you pay something that could get you another boutique pedal).
i used to save on shipping by letting the shipper separate the neck from the body (just my luck that pretty soon, i was into NT basses)
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i was lucky to find a 3rd party shipper there in the US. so which explains, why i am shopping in the classifieds again
if you are shipping to some guy in the Philippines, i could give you the web address of the service (shipping is a lot cheaper).
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tip:
before you ship, take pictures of your item or video the whole process from the shipping to you getting the package on FedEx and signing the shipping documents. in this way, there is no way for the d-bag to file a claim over paypal and win (i do this).
also ask for stuff like a scanned copy of a legal ID - only applicable if you are the buyer and you do not know how to look for the seller in case he disappears.