ok, this is gonna be a mouthful....
so a made a 7 string bass in high school. i wanted a low f# for some reason, and my thought at the time was that i should lengthen the scale so that it wouldn't sound too floppy (35.5"). what i failed to consider was that i would also be lengthening the scale for the smaller strings, which is causing them to break after a short time (or so i assume). i continually kick myself for not fanning the frets. I'm currently using conklin snakeskins, and at $75+ a set, i don't much care for replacing strings on a regular basis.
so now that we're done laughing at my youthful ambitions, what should i do to avoid this problem? bigger strings? smaller? i bought a single unwound string to replace one that broke, and that seems to have handled the tension better than any so far, although it sounds drastically brighter than the wound strings... ....???? i've even considered moving up or down a string if that would help.
that aside... i have also heard that flatwounds generally have lower tension than roundwounds... and i have been seriously considering pulling the frets on my bass anyway, so if i were to go fretless and get flatwounds, could that solve the problem? and... perhaps a stupid question... what about contrabass and/or cello strings? as uprights have a much longer scale... could that work?

!!! and thanks in advance!