Well I have managed to get it much better than it was, heres how in case anyone else is having similar trouble. It is basically the clamping method without the clamps!
I left the washer (if it was one) where it was and put the nut back on the rod (after some light greasing).
I did it up close to where it was going to stop, then got someone to bend the neck over their knee into a backbow. I then did up the nut a bit more which fixed it into a small backbow. Then tuned up, and the tension of the strings then removed the backbow when tuned up.
The result is now my neck is as straight as my other basses!

. I know the neck may move a bit still, but I hope it wont be too much.
To help with any future problems and adjustments I will be downsizing my string gauge in the near future also, so there will be less pull, and I will have more room to adjust (if necessary).
Hope this may be of use to someone.