| Hi Mlopbass,
I'd try ALL the mentioned solutions (just to see what works for you)- reduce your pickups' height untill you can play as you like all over the high-fret register without too much gain coming through. This will, however also reduce the volume of lower notes - so find a happy medium!
This is where I'd bring in the compression - try to grab a simple one at first (such as an MXR Dynacomp, DOD, Boss, etc), so you can easily dial in a setting which you like for lower fret-areas, but will still keep your high-register under control.
This is the approach I've taken to all of my and my student's basses, and everyone seems to be happy with it's effect on their playing.
Compressors will affect your sound (in different ways, depending on the compressor), but it will eventually boil down to wether this change works for you. The comp I like best is the inexpensive Milk Box by DOD - it keeps my basses attack under control, yet maintains the original sound character beautifully.
Hope you get your bass playing to feel good! JOHN |