I prefer tripods for the portability, but they need to have sturdy legs and not those sloppy loose ones, they're very irritating. When you fold in the legs, they should stay in that position.
Then I wouldn't buy a stand that is too light --> probably poor quality. The screws must also be of good quality and not too small.
König&Meyer (K&M) stands have always been good IMO. Just stow the stands well every time you don't use them and don't overtighten the screws (regardless of brand), and they should last for a very long time, especially the quality stands. I still have the same K&M mic stand as I bought over 10 years ago, and I've used it on virtually all gigs I've played at. You can see it's been used, but it's still functioning well.
