I am a big fan of PA stuff for bass. Can't play on "normal" bass amp anymore.
I use those for the same reasons you stated.
Also because I practice at home on "studio" reference (JBL LSR) so I need a flat/full range reference for bass too.
I got a Mackie SRM450 when they first got out and used it to death but now I'm on RCF wich are the best sounding plastic/light weight active boxes IME/IMHO.
They are made in Italy , you will be able to have some in Belgium for sure.
For your situation , it will depend wich one you choose and how loud you want to be.
If you get a Sub/top combo ( a good idea IMO) the sub have to be at least 500watts min , then you adjust the level of the top to fit.
If your sub have a Phase control in the Xover section, it can become very handy.
I use a single 10" (RCF ART310A ) box wich is 350watts/26 pounds. My goal was to get the best sounding/lightest/powerful enough/small footprint box and it's that one.
But it's not enough to play with a loud band , as would a small bass combo anyway. I use 2 boxes when I need more db.
Another advantage is that they can be rented anywhere , if you need one or two extra or if yours break on tour.
( I ordered one of these subs to use on bigger/louder gigs, still waiting for the delivery for two months now , the distributor here is in Toronto and is sleeping a bit;
http://www.rcf.it/en_US/products/pro...ies/art-902-as )
The new serie 7 from RCF are very nice , powerfull and light.
You have plenty of other choices to choose from but don't forget that like anything else , you get what you pay for.
As a preamp , there are millions of options out there. Question of $$$ and taste.
I used a TD100 for 6 years , got a VB99 last year , so I use that now.