The thing about gripmaster is that it slows your fingers down. The bigger muscles, though more powerful, are slower. So if you do use a gripmaster, do alot of dexterity exercises to maintain fast accurate fingers.
And for stretching go
here. But if you feel the problem is really bad then see a doctor and find out how serious it really is.
The numbness might be caused by pressure on the median nerve by swelling or scarring in your carpal tunnel. These exercises help stretch the transverse carpal ligament, but may also pushing on the nerve more if there is swelling or scarring. Remember, your carpal tunnel is biggest when your wrists are straight. Now, my wrists are slightly more than a 90° (180° would be straight) when playing and I don't encounter any problems. But maybe genetically you have a problem with that, so try straightening out your wrist and seeing if the problem persists.
Oh, and is your index finger cold? It could be a tense muscle that cuts off blood flow to the tip of your finger. (again stretching should relax and limber your hands.)