I have scoured the internet for the answer to this question, I must have visited 50 websites, watched a ton of youtube videos, forums, and I cant figure it out.
If one of you finds a link to this answer I will be embaraced

Its kind of a long question... or a few.
In the most general sense, when playing with the right hand fingers, do you allow the nail to hit the string, or do you just use the "meat" of your finger?
Reason is, my index finger, when plucking, or w/e word you use, will not, no matter how short I cut my nail, stop hitting the string. Ive been playing with my middle and ring finger because I get a much more consistent sound. When playing with index and middle, I get the nail on the index, and no nail on the middle. I like the sound with no nail on the string, it sounds much more consistent, reduces the volume level of the overtones, and is warmer.
Im a beginner now, but Ive played alot of instruments, have 10 years of experience on the sax, and I know, when all the bass videos show guys playing index and middle, if I were to play middle ring, bass players would probably cry out, but I'll ask anyways, if the nail thing is a problem, and my index finger is for some reason... retarded... is middle ring O.K.? Thanks in advance.