Your premise of whining and crying almost serves to make my contradictory argument doomed to the scrap heap of whinging rubbish. Jimmy, sometimes you post like a lawyer.
In any case, I've recently evaluated my right hand technique thanks to another thread on this topic (I've basically just been playing for 30 years without thinking too much about it), my conclusion, having determined that I use a healthy mix of alternate and raking is that if you can develop a technique that works well for you, that's
always the best way to do it.
And that's the only use of the word always I'll use in this thread.