John K at Toms River music has been teaching forever in Ocean County. My old guitarist owned a store in Forked River in the 90s and John was the bass teacher there.
I had wanted to take some lessons from him myself back then, but he wouldn't teach me.... he refered me to his friend/teacher Dave LaRue (who was still in the area). We rehearsed at the store so he heard me play... but I sound better than I actually am, Dave would have laughed and sent me home
He teaches at both the Toms River and Manahawkin stores now.
If you are stuck, I don't give lessons but I'd be up for giving some pointers. I've been playing 26 years and I'm currently working through Scott Hubbell's and Mike Dimin's books.