I've been playing for only a year so I'm no expert, but this is how I started. First I went to a teacher to learn good technique and some basic theory. The latter involved learning the major scales and to be able to play them all over the neck, and also learning where all the notes are on the fret board. As you progress, try playing along to cd's. Training your ear by playing along to your favourite music is better than using tabs IMO. When I get to a certain stage I go back to the teacher to move it on a bit more. Hope this helps.
Good luck with your learing and above all
enjoy it.
