Welcome. You came to the right place to ask this

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For the bass, You could always shimmy on down to Rondomusic.com (as was already suggested). The basses there are cheap in cost, but surprisingly good for the price. I love my Brice, and there are a lot of others who love their SX basses.
As for an amp, you could always search around town or on eBay for a decent, inexpensive one. There are about 2543827 Threads on amps, so check em out and see what comes up. You might find something nice

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As for lessons, look around your area for people who are teaching bass lessons (I know that this really isn't that helpful, but I'm not sure what there is around you). There are some good lessons online, but nothing beats a dedicated teacher, IMO.