Hiya TB, I'm popping in again after a while being away and as the title suggests, I'd like some help developing my motor skills.
I'm a weird bassist, I'm still learning as much as ever and I feel myself getting better every day but for some reason, I tend to skip certain steps in the learning process if I feel I wont need them at the time. For example, slapping, I've never really taken the time to do it (which is changing shortly) but that's because up until recently I haven't felt the need to incorporate it into my bass lines.
Anyways, my band recently broke up and I've got another couple of projects lined up, for some reason now is the time I want to be able to do some back-ups... while playing. The problem is, I find it hard to speak while playing, let alone sing.
I tend to mess up the bass rhythm or speak to the beat and be forced to phrase my words to each riff within a bass line whenever I do try singing/talking. All-in-all, I end up sounding like someone who's possessed by some sort of Speak & Spell demon.
Don't get me wrong, sometimes when I'm not paying attention to what I'm doing, I can carry on entire conversations while playing my bass lines without a hitch, that is until I realize I'm doing it, so yea I need some tips n' tricks fellas!
My ex-drummer told me that he couldn't sing and play until he picked up drums, a pal of mine said he practiced playing/singing while talking to his GF on the phone. Currently I lack access to drums and a GF

, plus I hate being on the phone so that's out. I'm been slowly trying to just sing the notes as I play them but that's the best I can do, I also hope that can help me become better at playing what's on my mind (for solos and stuff) without needing to fish for notes... Anyways, I'm rambling on, so yea, please do as you do so well and teach me your ways masters of the bass!