I have definitely been there. You shed and shed and shed and sometimes get totally frustrated.
Today, I had one of those mements that made me realize that,
Yes -- it DOES make a difference!
I want you to think about the Stevie Wonder tune,
"I Wish." If you know the tune, you know that the bass line is the glue to the entire song. Pretty much eighth notes for the entire song.
A bear.
When I first picked up bass, I was intimidated by the song. Couldn't make the damn think work to save my life. To top it off, my instructor and I went out to a club to listen to a band he knew. They invited him to the stage to sit in and the tune they called was "I Wish."
He proceeded to play it
flawlessly --
and that night, they decided to play it down a half-step from normal. One second, he's sitting with me, shooting the breeze with a drink in his hand, and the next, he's on stage playing his a$$ off!
I was totally like,
"Damn -- I'll never get there."
The months go on -- I practice, get better, get a better feel for the instrument. I decided to work out the song note-for-note and try to get it under my fingers. After a while, I got the notes but still couldn't play it in good time.
FRUSTRATION
More time passes -- I get to the point where I can play it in pretty good time but by the end of the song, I've stopped once or twice because my hands
(or my concentration) had run out of gas.
Today, I happened to play the song and magically I was totally in the pocket with it! Don't get me wrong -- I still have to concentrate on it -- it's that kind of song. But as I was playing, my fingers and my brain just kind of connected and before I knew it the song was over. For you long-time players, this may not seem like much but to a relative newbie, it was a major accomplishment!
That is nothing more than a testament to muscle memory, comfort with the instrument, and endurance -- all of which comes from practice!
I just wanted to post this for the benefit of the players are shedding hard but feeling they aren't getting anywhere.
Hang in there -- it really does get better! 