At my lesson last Thursday, my instructor (DILL) told me that a gig on a cruise ship (4 months) came up and he was leaving to play bass in the ship band. He said the money was too good to pass up.
I asked him if he could recommend any teachers. He said that he thought that I would be better off going through a local music college program for instruction. He told me over the month of lessons I had progressed well and that I could be subbing for an orchestra if I wanted if I continued in the vain that I was following. He told me he didn't go that direction due to his love for jazz and less focus on playing classical.
I was unbeleiving of his positive comments. I told him I never thought that I had any musical gifts, but that I had to work to be any good. He disagreed and told me that I could be going places in time.
So, this left me with a decision...Do I wait for him to return? Do I take lessons in the mean time? Do I go to a local music shool? Am I really "talented" in this area?
My goals are not necessaruly to play in an orchestra. I wanted to be good enough on upright to explore jazz and to play some classical pieces in church. I wasn't thinking of subbing for an orchestra. I am also 28 and have gone to school for a BA in a non-music area and am nearly completed a Masters part time. Music to me is a hobby I enjoy that getting better is what keeps me engaged.
The music store where the Dill worked told me that a guy John could pick up with my lessons. I talked with john and he said he would do lessons at my house, 2 times a month for $60/Month, an hour per session, which is affordable. He asked me what I was working on, I said Simandl, Sight Reading, Rufus Reid, and he said he could work with me on that stuff.
I am thinking I am going to take lessons with John rather than practice on my own for four months waiting for DIll, my current instructor. I also don't have time with school to do a music school thing. So....
What would you do?
Also, do you think you are musically gifted? How can one tell?
PS - Edited for proper framing - I have 5 weeks of lessons under my belt....