On the one hand, on band websites I like a lot of eye candy. Flash, elaborate graphics, etc. OTOH, not everyone can view those sites, or it's at least a pain in the butt waiting for stuff to load if the connection is slow, or if you have to d/l the latest version of flash, or if the latest version doesn't support older content, etc... The eye candy can be a big drag from a functionality standpoint.
For that reason I use the absolute minimum of eye candy on all of my sites, so that everyone can view them with no hassle or delay. For example:
http://www.ev-b.com
Primitive, but accessible.