| The group I play in just did a gig that is a usual booking each month, but the organizer decided that anything taken at the door for this particular date, would be donated for the relief of the hurricane. All of a sudden, there were emails back from band members that they would, also, donate their pay that day, also. I felt bad, since I and my wife have already given, and I couldn't afford to give up the gig pay, that I couldn't respond in kind. It's times like that, that I wish people would just respond to the emailer, instead of replying "all". Puts everyone else in a position to respond.
I kept my pay, since, like I said, we've already given through other channels to the relief, but it still felt weird, since my other band-mates gave their pay from the gig for this. Makes me feel like I have to explain myself, when there's no explaination necessary, nor is it any of their business.
Sometimes life sucks, even when it's not your fault!
If you're comfortable with yourself and your actions, then don't worry about what the others did. It's not their business. You were hired, for whatever the reason, (subbing for a missing player, etc.), and deserve the pay. There was no other arrangement for you to consider. The others are a totally different "contract".
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