I tend to agree...there's always some excitement with my bands when we pull off some crazy-difficult songs...and we can't wait to display our prowess live. Sort of like having pride in your work and not wanting to sound shoddy or cheap (no offense to those who can't help sounding shoddy & cheap).
There are some folks who get rat-holed on a bad way of thinking: they're the best and everyone else sucks. They can't appreciate anything if it doesn't measure up to their standards or appeal to their very narrow spectrum of taste. I think it's also a defense mechanism when they hear musicians who are clearly more experienced...a sort of face-saving behavior.
Fortunately I don't have to deal with that very often. Most players I know aren't ultra-competitive d**ks. There's a lot of sharing and mutual respect. I'll never rip on any musician no matter their experience level.
Some of the best times in my life as a young musician were the community guitar gang parties where everyone loved the instrument, loved music and shared without worrying about leaking the "sacred knowledge" to the uninitiated...or whatever. It didn't matter if you were a seasoned pro or complete newbie. All that mattered was the love of music, and we freely shared in something significant.
In ultra-competitive environments, few people on top will ever share their sacred domain knowledge for fear of being replaced by a young lion. I work in Information Technology, and this is the way of the corporate ladder. Many programming forums are very helpful...but the holy grail info is withheld because of the competitive nature of other software developers.
TB seems to be pretty helpful...people freely give of their time and knowledge without prejudice. Very nice
