| As for the original question, depending on how I'm asked, and whose asking, I *might* respond with:
"I don't know - do you mind if I bang your wife/girlfriend/sister???" - that usually gets the point across... Non-musicians that would ask such a question usually are asses, and will likely subject your gear to abuse - then I'd have to thump them - why even let it get that far???
If it's another musician asking, and he looks like he's got his act together, then I'll probably let him play my bass, if the situation allows for it - although I won't subject my instrument/equipment to any risk, or be rude to my bandmates - regardless of whom it is...
- georgestrings |