
Alright, I'm in two bands. Playing bass in both until we found out our drummer is balls to the wall-psychotic. Very disappoiting. He never wants to just jam and play, he only wants to "rehearse" when we have a show...plus he's always complaining that he wants to practice, practice, practice. Yet, (I live 30 minutes away) whenever I get there(my two brothers are the other two in the band)he always has an excuse for something and it ends up being us three playing away like usual. We write all the songs, make up the rhythms, lyrics, everything. All the drummer ever does is drink, act pyschotic, and play 4/4 rock-beats on EVERYTHING!

The thing is, two of us can play bass(and when he plays bass its not a guitarist playing bass, dude is good). So I'm thinking that we can turn this into a 3-piece. And they want me to play drums as well...so...
1-Give this dude another chance? Kick 'em to the curb and hope he doesn't go crazy...I'm not using the "mental" issue lightly...he's about as messed up as soup sandwiches.
2-Continue with my drum lessons and save for a kit?
3-If so, what kind of kit-I like having different tones. Boomy kick drum...and any cymbal suggestions?
4-Would it just be easier as a 3-piece? We are brothers...but we don't act like it...kinda weird that we get along so well...
5-What do I do to not turn into a...ugh, "drummer". I'm a bassist at heart but I loves the rhythm...
thanks and cheers