I gave up on the folding music stands. I got the heavy plate steel kind, cuz it always ends up having a pen, a pencil, a bottle of water, an earplug case, a tuner... all kinds of junk sitting on the ledge. Might as well invest in a strong and stable stand.
Proline Conductor Sheet Music Stand
It collapses nicely, but in no ways how you expect the top to fold up flat. But its sturdiness and strength far outweighs the "inconvenience" of the big head.