Hello Peter,
Wow, that's a great story.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't that IRA attack the one that lead to the events represented in the movie "In the Name of the Father"?
I've lived in Surrey (mostly in Farnham) for over a year - and I've rented a room in Woking for a couple of weeks. I used to go to the Odeon movie theatre in Guilford, since there were none in Farnham.
Anyway, just wanted to say that I really can relate to your story - but not because of gigs or basses
Are you still living in the UK?