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01-04-2013, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted by PassivAggressiv  Maybe next time we'll manage to make it out closer to you. 
I'm usually the one having to apologize. Thankfully for me, the hubz can't resist me when I'm on my knees, either.  | Nothing like starting your day off with a big smile. Thanks PA
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01-04-2013, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted by tomydacat I bet HAHA | Quote:
Originally Posted by drummer5359 | I am pretty naughty on a regular basis, so I find myself having to apologize a lot. Quote:
Originally Posted by SpecialBlender Nothing like starting your day off with a big smile. Thanks PA | YW. With FM so quiet lately, somebody has to keep this thread from getting too clean! 
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01-04-2013, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by PassivAggressiv
I am pretty naughty on a regular basis, so I find myself having to apologize a lot.
YW. With FM so quiet lately, somebody has to keep this thread from getting too clean! | Lol...your hubby is a VERY lucky guy!! |
01-04-2013, 12:21 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: RVA | | | I double that HAHA
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01-04-2013, 12:33 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA | | | Maybe by coincidence, my love and I just had the worst disagreement that we've ever had in the four and a half years that we've been together.
It must be something in the air.
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01-04-2013, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by drummer5359 Maybe by coincidence, my love love and I just had the worst disagreement that we've ever had in the four and a half years that we've been together.
It must be something in the air. | Sorry to hear that Mike. I'll try to keep the bad ju-ju from spreading  |
01-04-2013, 12:53 PM
|  | Owner of the GK Angry Bird amp | | Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Olympia, WA | | Quote:
Originally Posted by drummer5359 Maybe by coincidence, my love love and I just had the worst disagreement that we've ever had in the four and a half years that we've been together.
It must be something in the air. | Maybe it's going around. I had mine bring up that one of his friends (whom i think is an asshat anyway) thought that my walking my male friend to his car and standing in the driveway to talk to him before he left our party was inappropriate and something must be going on between us. Luckily DH is used me having male friends but it still felt like being accused of something.
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01-04-2013, 02:05 PM
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Endorsing Artist: FBB Bass Works/Barker Bass | | Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Monroe Twp, NJ | | Man, you all need to shape up!! Just follow my example .... after almost 32 years together I've come to realize that I'm wrong when my wife tells me I'm wrong. No arguments, no fighting, just me saying "You're right, I'm sorry". It's so much easier to deal with and, most likely, I probably am wrong the huge majority of the time. I married waayyyy above my pay grade, so I consider myself lucky she's still here after all of these years |
01-04-2013, 02:51 PM
|  | Yankee Carpetbagger Plunkin' Roots And Fifths.... | | Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Central Massachusetts | | | My wife called me a couple hours ago.
Her cousin committed suicide. Body was identified this morning.
He was 21 years old.
So 2013 is not starting off well.
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01-04-2013, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted by BayStateBass My wife called me a couple hours ago.
Her cousin committed suicide. Body was identified this morning.
He was 21 years old.
So 2013 is not starting off well. |  
That is absolutely horrible news. You know where to find me if you need to talk. |
01-04-2013, 03:23 PM
|  | (aka Greg Harman, the curmudgeon with a conundrum) | | Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Dunbar, West Virginia | | | Damn man, what the hell is going on? Focus on the positive and what you cannot handle leave to a power greater than yourself...call that power whatever you want.
Woman once asked me, "Are you saved?"
I replied, "From what?"
She answered, "From the Devil!"
I said, "I do not believe in the Devil. I know the Devil exists but if I believe in him than I give him energy. The Devil is more than I can cope with so I just do not think about him at all. God made the Devil, let God deal with him. If I just focus on God then the Devil is behind me and he is God's problem; not mine."
Please excuse my political incorrectness in talking religion; I am just sharing a story to make a point. Two of my best friends have committed suicide. One in the 70's with a shotgun and the other purposefully OD'ed in the 90's. Let all of us focus on the positive and play the cards we are dealt; karma is the dealer and we are only working through our own mistakes. Don't do something that will make the game longer and harder later. You people mean a lot to me and I do not want you hurting....
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01-04-2013, 03:53 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ontario, Canada | | | Oh man, the going is tough out there!
But we really need to roll some good news just to balance things out so we can all remember that good things happen in the world.
Now I just wish I had some to share. Though nothing really too bad either.
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01-04-2013, 04:22 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Wildomar, CA | | | Well...
Things between the missus and I seem to be ok for the moment. A lot of what I was feeling was due to a great deal of self loathing and torment.
Crow - I agree with what you are saying.
I'm not about to do anything selfish and stupid. |
01-04-2013, 04:45 PM
|  | Love your craft, stay humble, enjoy the journey | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Boston Massachusetts | | Quote:
Originally Posted by BayStateBass My wife called me a couple hours ago.
Her cousin committed suicide. Body was identified this morning.
He was 21 years old.
So 2013 is not starting off well. | Ouch
My condolences
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01-04-2013, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by BayStateBass My wife called me a couple hours ago.
Her cousin committed suicide. Body was identified this morning.
He was 21 years old.
So 2013 is not starting off well. | So sorry to hear this sad news, my thoughts are with you and your family.
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01-04-2013, 07:56 PM
| | Yankee Carpetbagger Plunkin' Roots And Fifths.... | | Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Central Massachusetts | | | Thanks everyone. We were not close with him but he was family. It hit home particularly hard as he was also diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome like my son, and he was hospitalized six years ago after a suicide attempt. Given recent events, the news was difficult.
Memorial service is Monday with cremation to follow. Evidently this was his final request based on the video he left behind.
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01-04-2013, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by BayStateBass Thanks everyone. We were not close with him but he was family. It hit home particularly hard as he was also diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome like my son, and he was hospitalized six years ago after a suicide attempt. Given recent events, the news was difficult.
Memorial service is Monday with cremation to follow. Evidently this was his final request based on the video he left behind. | wow, that is tough. Sorry to hear that BSB. And a "hang in there" to everyone else with what's going on in your lives.
when things look bad, there's always a new bass to cheer you up, or at least distract you temporarily. Here is the Lakland 35" P fiver that arrived today, in a straight-up trade for my (relatively) old Jazz that I really didn't play any more.   
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01-04-2013, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by JimB52 Told you before but I'll say it again - I love this picture and I think you need to buy that bass.
8) | I think that face was either right before or right after some patented Tat Sass! Quote:
Originally Posted by Tat2dHeart Mike feel better soon. I took a fall last night too. Found myself laying flat on my back on the ice in the nursing home parking lot seeing stars. | You and Mike hang in there and heal up soon!!! Can't have either of you all gimpy for Bass Boot Camp! Quote:
Originally Posted by DerTeufel PA, thank you. I essentially kicked the marital hornet's nest on New Year's Day (she's not innocent, either). Trying to take it day by day right now. | Did you ask for an open relationship again?  Quote:
Originally Posted by PassivAggressiv That sucks. :/ We all screw things up, sometimes, though.
My suggestion: give her chocolate, lots of chocolate, along with profuse apologies. | And shoes are always good... Quote:
Originally Posted by DerTeufel I hope not..I don't like it in here and the Min-pin keeps farting!!  | I'm sure he's saying the same thing about you in his little devil doggie forums! Quote:
Originally Posted by JaamE And it would have been fun for me to have been there, but i live too far away and have no extra money to spend on trips. I'd have enjoyed trying to kill BSB or any of the MoCWB who wanted to play. Esp since my Army friend lost so quickly against my redheadedness. | I'm pretty sure we took out a few of the guys at the bar, between T2H determine to master the BJ shot (she did a pretty fantastic job), and PA and I dancing together. Quote:
Originally Posted by PassivAggressiv
I am pretty naughty on a regular basis, so I find myself having to apologize a lot.
YW. With FM so quiet lately, somebody has to keep this thread from getting too clean! | You're doing a great job in your fantastic naughtiness! Quote:
Originally Posted by drummer5359 Maybe by coincidence, my love and I just had the worst disagreement that we've ever had in the four and a half years that we've been together.
It must be something in the air. | Stop asking for open relationships!!!!! Quote:
Originally Posted by JaamE Maybe it's going around. I had mine bring up that one of his friends (whom i think is an asshat anyway) thought that my walking my male friend to his car and standing in the driveway to talk to him before he left our party was inappropriate and something must be going on between us. Luckily DH is used me having male friends but it still felt like being accused of something. | There is nothing I despise more than people sticking their nose into my relationship and deciding what is "appropriate." That is between you and yours hubz and everyone else can go suck a big fat, um, rooster. Quote:
Originally Posted by pointbass Man, you all need to shape up!! Just follow my example .... after almost 32 years together I've come to realize that I'm wrong when my wife tells me I'm wrong. No arguments, no fighting, just me saying "You're right, I'm sorry". It's so much easier to deal with and, most likely, I probably am wrong the huge majority of the time. I married waayyyy above my pay grade, so I consider myself lucky she's still here after all of these years | This is a fantastic method. Quote:
Originally Posted by DerTeufel Well...
Things between the missus and I seem to be ok for the moment. A lot of what I was feeling was due to a great deal of self loathing and torment. | I'm masterful at self-loathing and torment... I'm trying to do less of it, but being conscious of the fact that I do it somehow makes me do it more...it's one of those weird vicious circle things...
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01-04-2013, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted by pointbass I'm saddened to share that my friend and Sunday Jazz jam drummer, Leo Gayten, passed away yesterday. I'd appreciate it if you could send good vibes to his family, and in particular his young daughter, Lisette. Leo was a beautiful, peace-filled cat and a smoking drummer ... he'll be sorely missed .... Attachment 308867 | Quote:
Originally Posted by BayStateBass My wife called me a couple hours ago.
Her cousin committed suicide. Body was identified this morning.
He was 21 years old.
So 2013 is not starting off well. | PB, BSB so sorry for both of your losses. Love and positive thoughts to both of you. |
01-04-2013, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by chuck3 wow, that is tough. Sorry to hear that BSB. And a "hang in there" to everyone else with what's going on in your lives.
when things look bad, there's always a new bass to cheer you up, or at least distract you temporarily. Here is the Lakland 35" P fiver that arrived today, in a straight-up trade for my (relatively) old Jazz that I really didn't play any more. | CONGRATS on the new baby.
You know...Lakland is in Chi-town...if you have one, you really should head over to check out their factory...just sayin'. | | Thread Tools | Search this Thread | | | | 
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