Yeesh....girlfriends and bands have a poor track record.
Yoko Ono ring a bell? Your mate needs to get his stuff in order or he needs to find another band. Or you do. Or he needs to find another girl. Or this will never change
__________________ Don't ask me, I'm still trying to find the #@$#& "trust rod" on a bass!
I would hesitate to use the phrase "very good bassist" in any association with my name
I used to "blow up" sometimes when things didnt' go my way. It was just an immature, spoiled person trying to get their way by fear and intimidation. I had to grow up or become a hermit.
The guy has to deal with his rage outside of the band because it will def. affect the band and everything else he's into.
Don't ask me, I'm still trying to find the #@$#& "trust rod" on a bass! 
