imho both people in that exchange seem douchey imho
the bassist comes off as a pantload and the guy complaining about him comes off as childish and petty....
as for not rehearsing until after gigs....no problem if its a fill-in, but wouldn't you want a chance to hear everyone, feel out the drummer etc prior to jumping on stage? Mind you I didn't go to Juliard, or Berkley....or even Dave's School of Bass so *** do I know?
