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04-21-2009, 10:17 AM
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I was in a Sam Ash yesterday, just looking around. So, a guy and girl come in and she seemed stressed out. I turns out her husband, the guy, bought a new blonde Ric Bass and his wife had him return it. She even came with him to make sure he did I guess. He looked so hurt and humiliated. The sales guy told me that was the first time anyone ever returned a Ric. Couldn't help but feel sorry for him. | 
04-21-2009, 10:28 AM
| | | | Maybe he had a MAJOR GAS attack and bought the Ric without thinking about Juniorīs college fund...or mortgage payments
I want to think that, i can use a story like that, women are getting on my nerves lately...
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04-21-2009, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by RONQUITO Maybe he had a MAJOR GAS attack and bought the Ric without thinking about Juniorīs college fund...or mortgage payments
I want to think that, i can use a story like that, women are getting on my nerves lately... |
Or she's a bit@h. | 
04-21-2009, 11:03 AM
|  | Bass lines like a big, funky giant | | Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Southern MN | | | What a relationship! He feels he can drop $2K (+/-) without her prior knowledge, approval, consent, etc...
He deserves to feel hurt and humiliated, IMHO.
Adults who share their lives with each other don't do this type of thing. The key word being "adults". | 
04-21-2009, 11:11 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Bellflower, CA | | Quote:
Originally Posted by scottbass What a relationship! He feels he can drop $2K (+/-) without her prior knowledge, approval, consent, etc...
He deserves to feel hurt and humiliated, IMHO.
Adults who share their lives with each other don't do this type of thing. The key word being "adults". | Agreed...IF in fact he purchased it without her knowing or IF they had some financial burden...
Also we have to remember with everyone and their mother losing their jobs left and right 2k could make the mortgage for another month for most people...saving is the name of the game right now...and if you are married the woman needs to know if you are going to drop 2k on something...even if you've been saving up for a specific thing i.e. bass, pedals, rig etc...
I'm in the same situation now....I've been saving up $100 a month to get a new MIA P-bass however I'm also in the process of buying a house and the fact of the matter is that no matter what I'm saving up for, my family, roof over their heads, and walls that hold in the heat are my priorities first so If I have to dip into my G.A.S. savings fund then that's that...
Don't get me wrong it sucks to have to return such a great bass but family/house always comes first....
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04-21-2009, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Mig Or she's a bit@h. | I didnīt want to think that, for my own sake. See...giving up on them itīs not an option (for me at least), but that is a BIG possibility, iīve heard some things from them like: ...are you still into that music "stuff"?, what if you sell one of those basses and we get a nice vacation? what difference does it make? you already have 3 of them... 
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04-21-2009, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by RONQUITO I didnīt want to think that, for my own sake. See...giving up on them itīs not an option (for me at least), but that is a BIG possibility, iīve heard some things from them like: ...are you still into that music "stuff"?, what if you sell one of those basses and we get a nice vacation? what difference does it make? you already have 3 of them...  | Women who don't understand playing instruments can be really nasty. | 
04-21-2009, 11:31 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: St. Louis, MO | | | @ Mr. Mig
PEOPLE who don't understand playing instruments can be really nasty.
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04-21-2009, 11:31 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Austin, TX | | | Mine knows better. But, at the same time, I would never drop that kind of cash period much less without consent. But what is mine is mine, and she would never ask me to sell something I already own and love.
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04-21-2009, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Pedulla? @ Mr. Mig
PEOPLE who don't understand playing instruments can be really nasty. | I stand corrected.
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04-21-2009, 01:38 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: St. Joseph, MO | | Quote:
Originally Posted by scottbass What a relationship! He feels he can drop $2K (+/-) without her prior knowledge, approval, consent, etc...
He deserves to feel hurt and humiliated, IMHO.
Adults who share their lives with each other don't do this type of thing. The key word being "adults". | It's always easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. 
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04-21-2009, 09:18 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Atlanta, Georgia | | I bet if you hang around the local jewelry store, you wouldn't see the same thing happening to the guy's wife and her 2k worth of diamonds. If I was him, I would take a good long time to consider what kind of future was ahead of me with a woman that didn't respect my choices.  | 
04-21-2009, 09:30 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Denver, CO | | +1 @ Beanstoot Quote:
Originally Posted by Low Tone It's always easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.  | Not if you have to return a Ric! lol Quote:
Originally Posted by tippr34 I bet if you hang around the local jewelry store, you wouldn't see the same thing happening to the guy's wife and her 2k worth of diamonds. | LOL. Someone will figure out the Space/Time Continuum before THAT happens... (yes, I'm cynical. I know this about myself and am okay with it! lol)
Man, I'm glad I'm currently single. lol
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04-21-2009, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by tippr34 I bet if you hang around the local jewelry store, you wouldn't see the same thing happening to the guy's wife and her 2k worth of diamonds. If I was him, I would take a good long time to consider what kind of future was ahead of me with a woman that didn't respect my choices.  | +1
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04-21-2009, 11:09 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Illinois | | | We don't know anything about this guy's story. He might not have even known how to play a bass guitar and had some sort of shock mid-life crisis that told him to run out and get one.
Or, the wife just didn't want it around. It's not fair to give either the benefit of the doubt. | 
04-21-2009, 11:44 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Riverside, CA | | | maybe she wanted him to get her a jazz bass for her birthday.
and he bought a Ric. you guys should understand. | 
04-21-2009, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Pedulla? @ Mr. Mig
PEOPLE who don't understand playing instruments can be really nasty. | Agreed. Back story to this is regardless. Don't planning on marrying one who isn't... Dealt with that with past girlfriends... Not worth it.
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04-22-2009, 06:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Low Tone It's always easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.  | Thank you Red Green?
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04-22-2009, 07:55 AM
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People need to figure out what they can afford 
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04-22-2009, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by makaky Credit card no 8 loaded....
People need to figure out what they can afford  | +1
In my family, if I want to buy gear, or anything else that is not for the entire family, I use money outside of our budgeted income. Our income pays the bills and puts some back. I do not buy what I cannot pay for up front. I save money that is made outside my job (i.e. bass gigs, sound gigs, I also do remote control programming) to pay for my gear. It never comes out of our monthly budget.
As said before, family always comes first.
If you cannot pay for it, you do not need it. That's how our country got into the situation we are in.
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