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Old 03-11-2010, 10:53 AM
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:26 AM
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...Excuse me while I rant...

"OMG I'm like so pretty, so like people like hate me, and like now I have to die."

What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty? Anyone ever given you a swirly, spit on you food, stolen your belongings only to trash them? You got one little dose of the reality that all those "untouchables" face everyday and you hung yourself.

It may sound cold, it may be harsh but I honestly have no sympathy, none....I'm actually borderline pleasantly amused. Natural selection at it's finest.
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:28 AM
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...Excuse me while I rant...

"OMG I'm like so pretty, so like people like hate me, and like now I have to die."

What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty? Anyone ever given you a swirly, spit on you food, stolen your belongings only to trash them? You got one little dose of the reality that all those "untouchables" face everyday and you hung yourself.

It may sound cold, it may be harsh but I honestly have no sympathy, none....I'm actually borderline pleasantly amused. Natural selection at it's finest.
Dude. What?
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:31 AM
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...Excuse me while I rant...

"OMG I'm like so pretty, so like people like hate me, and like now I have to die."

What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty? Anyone ever given you a swirly, spit on you food, stolen your belongings only to trash them? You got one little dose of the reality that all those "untouchables" face everyday and you hung yourself.

It may sound cold, it may be harsh but I honestly have no sympathy, none....I'm actually borderline pleasantly amused. Natural selection at it's finest.
Dude, seriously.... that kind of attitude is pretty much just as bad as those who would do the bullying...
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:33 AM
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...Excuse me while I rant...

"OMG I'm like so pretty, so like people like hate me, and like now I have to die."

What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty? Anyone ever given you a swirly, spit on you food, stolen your belongings only to trash them? You got one little dose of the reality that all those "untouchables" face everyday and you hung yourself.

It may sound cold, it may be harsh but I honestly have no sympathy, none....I'm actually borderline pleasantly amused. Natural selection at it's finest.
Harsh!
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:35 AM
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Too pretty? I think not. There was a bigger problem there.
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:35 AM
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What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty?
Equally crappy. Your point?

Kids will pick on anyone who's different for the slightest reason. A doing bad things to B doesn't justify C doing bad things to D.
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Pretty people have self esteem issues too. Just because a person is popular doesnt mean they don't suffer inside as well. Its often easier for a good looking person to become popular, sure, but sometimes they realize that they may only be popular for their looks, and that can develop a very insecure personality.
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Too pretty? I think not. There was a bigger problem there.
Would you mind explaining what you mean?
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Pretty people have self esteem issues too. Just because a person is popular doesnt mean they don't suffer inside as well. Its often easier for a good looking person to become popular, sure, but sometimes they realize that they may only be popular for their looks, and that can develop a very insecure personality.
It's true. I get "You are way too studly to be walking the Earth" all the time.
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:38 AM
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Too pretty? I think not. There was a bigger problem there.
Since she was apparently a foster child, I'd have to agree with that.

Sad nonetheless, though.
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:38 AM
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She was in foster care. A high percentage of foster kids have serious emotional issues, especially at that age.
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Would you mind explaining what you mean?
She has other issues.
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Maybe I'm missing something but a pretty girl commits suicide because she was bullied and it's big news, the ugly kid who goes through this everyday for years and trudges through is just forgotten.

...I don't wish death on anyone, even my worst enemies but I honestly feel nothing for this girl. Buck up, your being picked on because your pretty?! That's not being picked on that is being complemented.

I can understand if "pretty" is a euphemism for "slut" or something. On the surface though this girl was either incredibly weak, shallow and narrow/short sighted...or there was much more going on.

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*GAG*

...Excuse me while I rant...

"OMG I'm like so pretty, so like people like hate me, and like now I have to die."

What do you think being made fun of is like for people who aren't pretty? Anyone ever given you a swirly, spit on you food, stolen your belongings only to trash them? You got one little dose of the reality that all those "untouchables" face everyday and you hung yourself.

It may sound cold, it may be harsh but I honestly have no sympathy, none....I'm actually borderline pleasantly amused. Natural selection at it's finest.
Did you read the part where she was living in foster care?

Apparently there's more to the story than she killed herself because she's pretty. She obviously had some family/personal issues already. Someone with a healthy family and psyche probably could have overcome this issue. Obviously, she's not one of them.
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:45 AM
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Maybe I'm missing something but a pretty girl commits suicide because she was bullied and it's big news, the ugly kid who goes through this everyday for years and trudges through is just forgotten.
Well, it's not just that she was "too pretty" but the bullying was severe enough to push her over the edge. I can see your point though - bullying is equally bad no matter who is on the receiving end. Would the news media pay as much attention to "kid commits suicide because 'too ugly'"? I suspect you may have a point there.

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...I don't wish death on anyone, even my worst enemies but I honestly feel nothing for this girl.
Remember, she doesn't run the newspapers and didn't choose her genes. She deserves as much sympathy as any other victim.
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She has other issues.
Agreed.I think a lot of people here have had bullism problems at one point in life,and we all know how hard can that be on a 13-year-old's mind,obviously there were other issues present as well,but to end your own life at 13...just so infinitely sad
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Old 03-11-2010, 11:46 AM
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Maybe I'm missing something but a pretty girl commits suicide because she was bullied and it's big news, the ugly kid who goes through this everyday for years and trudges through is just forgotten.

...I don't wish death on anyone, even my worst enemies but I honestly feel nothing for this girl. Buck up your being picked on because your pretty?! That's not being picked on that is being complemented.

I can understand if "pretty" is a euphemism for "slut" or something. On the surface though this girl was either incredibly weak, shallow and narrow sighted...or there was much more going on.
Yeah but what does the fact it's big news or no news have to do with it? A kid can get bullied for ANY darn thing that sets them apart. Plus, it takes more than a bully's words to sting, it takes a victim who for whatever reason is not fully able to cope or deal with the bullying for whatever reason.
Her killing herself is NO different than some "ugly" kid doing the same. None.
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