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11-11-2008, 06:39 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Tyneside, UK | | | Bit of a social problem...need advice.
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My flatmates are absolutely great people but as you can imagine, we find little problems.
Recently one of my flatmates and a good friend came to me and told me that another of my flatmates had been slagging us all off whilst talking on her mobile phone to someone, and my friend had overheard her.
In the conversation this flatmate had supposedly called the rest of the people in the house 'like animals' and that she 'couldn't bear us'. My friend told me that it was because the flat was, in this girl's opinion. messy (I am the only person who tidies on a regular basis) and she'd also had said things about my bassplaying in the house (she hates my bass  )
Should I confront this person about what she'd said or just leave it?
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11-11-2008, 06:41 PM
|  | User | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Coast | | | WWAD?
Leave it, one vote for.
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11-11-2008, 06:46 PM
|  | That's the way uh huh uh huh I like it.. | | Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Robbinsville, NJ | | | just leave it. Everyone's entitled to their opinion. It would cause more harm then good to start something.
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11-11-2008, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Relic just leave it. Everyone's entitled to their opinion. It would cause more harm then good to start something. | I think it's a bit low for her to bitch behind our backs. It stinks of cowardice and dishonesty.
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11-11-2008, 06:52 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Machias/Bangor, Maine | | Confront her and solve the issue like real women....in a pit of jello. 
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11-11-2008, 06:54 PM
| | ????????????? | | Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Lexington KY | | | Yea leave it alone. As far as "slagging" goes, it sounds pretty tame to me.
Now, if your roommate decides to get drunk every night, set his alarm clock to go off every five minutes starting at midnight so he'll remember to call his girlfriend--although he just ends up sleeping through it--and then curses at you uncontrollably when you tell him to turn the %#^$ thing off...until your only recourse is to drag him out of bed and throw him off a second story balcony into the parking lot. Then you have a problem.
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11-11-2008, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by gold_member_321 Confront her and solve the issue like real women....in a pit of jello. | I was waiting for this.....  
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11-11-2008, 06:54 PM
|  | Funkify your Life | | Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The Bucket, RI. | | | Leave it.
You're just flatmates in college. You don't have to be friends.
If I know one thing about women though. It's impossible for you to simply leave it alone. Just bring it up and get yo biatch on. Smack each other around if it comes to that. Maybe she'll just leave on her own, but more than likely it will get much worse before it has a remote possibility of getting better. This way you can hate each other for the rest of your lives. |
11-11-2008, 07:21 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Richmond, Virginia | | Try to bring up the topics she was talking about and not her conversation on the phone casually and ask her if she's fine with the way things are.
If she's not willing to tell you when you ask yet complains about it on the phone to others there's nothing you can do, let her complain all she wants as long as you don't have to hear it.  |
11-11-2008, 07:33 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada | | | Stop being dirty and loud.
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11-11-2008, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Herrlster Stop being dirty and loud. | +1 and stop throwing up, passing out. or clean it up or do it in your room |
11-11-2008, 08:15 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NY, NY | | | Gonna give a +1 to Herrlster's and Croox's sentiments. IIRC you got into beef with your folks for your bass playing.
You might wanna consider not playing so loud.
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11-11-2008, 08:17 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Harpers Ferry WV | | | You need to become a hermit, without internet. |
11-11-2008, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Fassa Albrecht I think it's a bit low for her to bitch behind our backs. It stinks of cowardice and dishonesty. | ... unlike posting about it on the internet?  |
11-11-2008, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by David1234 ... unlike posting about it on the internet? |  |
11-11-2008, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by fenderhutz | What if the blog self destructs after reading?
That could be loud.
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put "getting drunk with GE" on bucket list:D | Taking parts donations for another Drunk Rock bass. FS/FT Montreux Little Buffer Ben Lindsey Jazz |
11-11-2008, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Fassa Albrecht I think it's a bit low for her to bitch behind our backs. It stinks of cowardice and dishonesty. | You're taking a very minor thing and trying to blow it up into some huge problem. Oh wait, you always do that.
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11-11-2008, 08:51 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Listowel/KW Ontario | | | Have you tried throwing up on her? That might work.
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11-11-2008, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by iamlowsound Have you tried throwing up on her? That might work.
lowsound | Do you really want this to happen? 
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Originally Posted by THand Really, what I keep thinking is:
put "getting drunk with GE" on bucket list:D | Taking parts donations for another Drunk Rock bass. FS/FT Montreux Little Buffer Ben Lindsey Jazz |
11-11-2008, 08:55 PM
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