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Old 07-05-2010, 09:56 AM
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I really haven't been able to be around as often as I like, but here are a few updates (for those of you that are not on Facebook):

In May 2009, I got laid of from my job of 7 years with the AFM (national office). It was a life changing event because like many of you, i'm a homeowner with all bills that normal Americans have. I thought for sure I'd go into foreclosure - unemployment doesn't really provide enough to survive. All I know is that I'll never have to work for an organization that has consistently failed club musicians - as well, no more having to try and sell a product and service that just doesn't work. It was 7 years of disappointment working there.

When I started getting unemployment, I entered into a grant program admin'd by the State of Texas, funded by the US gov't called the Workforce Investment Act. It was designed to "re-train" people to get jobs in industries that are looking for peeps. They sent me back to college. I'm majoring in information security (IT).

After my first semester, I landed an internship at an awesome company (web hosting). There are some really brilliant peeps working there.

Back up a few months, I re-met a really, really great woman. Never married and no kids... I've known her since the 2nd grade. We grew up 6 streets down from each other.. She ended up moving in with me. (hold that thought)

Go ahead and fast forward to May of THIS year - the company hired me full time with a salary I really didn't expect to get (a lot more than I had thought). My new pay checks and health benefits started exactly one week after my unemployment benefits ended. I was on unemployment for 1 year and 5 days (nightmare).

So new job, new industry, gaining great experience and knowledge - with products that sell....
Even better - I found a wonderful woman..

Wait for it, wait for it...

The best news is that we're having a baby and got married on July 2nd.

Life went from complete carp to being very happy and full of excitement:

Amazing wife, a little mini-me on the way, and working for a company that I truly believe in.

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which means that is awesome news hear!
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Wow man, cool.

Do you get the employee discount at Applebees now that you married her??

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Old 07-05-2010, 10:09 AM
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Do you get the employee discount at Applebees now that you married her??

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Old 07-05-2010, 10:11 AM
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It`s nice hearing stories like this. Congrats on everything
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Old 07-05-2010, 10:17 AM
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The best news is that we're having a baby and got married on July 2nd.

Life went from complete carp to being very happy and full of excitement:

Amazing wife, a little mini-me on the way, and working for a company that I truly believe in.

brother Carlos ,
i was just talking about you with Big O on the phone the other day !

great to read about the big changes in you life .
very happy to see you finally met the right woman ...

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Old 07-05-2010, 10:23 AM
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Three cheers for Carlos!! Hip hip hooray!

Now go write a book about it...a true American success story. Seriously.

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Old 07-05-2010, 10:28 AM
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Nice turn around, congrats!
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Old 07-05-2010, 10:39 AM
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Your story is just another reason I am forever the optimism. I would break into one of my long winded stories... But I'm on vacation!

Anyway, Congrats. :-)
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That's awesome!! Congrats
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Old 07-05-2010, 11:53 AM
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Very nice story! And wonderful positive changes you've made, congratulations sir!
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excellent. excellent all around. way to stay with it. enjoy it all!
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