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There's a girl i dated for a short time, who is still a good friend, she's thinking about giving this guy a 4th chance to date her. is it understandable for me to be a bit pissed?
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Background: theres a girl i dated for a short period, not anymore but we're still really good friends and i still like her. anyway she was dating another person, who she really liked(ok with me. if she's happy, i'm happy). anyway, it ended because the other person was really committed to another person, and she(my friend) said it would be a really long time before she could get over her(note, this was a week ago). now, she is talking about going out with another guy who she's gone out with 3 times before. i dont know whats bothering me more, her saying she would be over the other person anytime soon(considering the circumstances feels like she was lying to me) or that this guy is maybe getting a 4th chance! should this bother me or am i overreacting?
Sorry, I speak don't Drama.
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Sorry, I speak don't Drama.
yeah, im sorry. realized it sounds stupid.
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yeah, im sorry. realized it sounds stupid, sorry.
If you used a more definfed senctence structure and made better references to the parties involved, It would be easier to read and not make me feel like I'm back in the State-Sponsored Psychological Terrorism Institution of the US, better known as High School.
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Dude go balls out and tell her you wanna go out with her. WHats the worst that could happen? Her say no? So what. I assume you go to public school. There are a ton of girls other than her. Ask her out, if you get rejected move on.
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Dude go balls out and tell her you wanna go out with her. WHats the worst that could happen? Her say no? So what. I assume you go to public school. There are a ton of girls other than her. Ask her out, if you get rejected move on.
This. I'm too much of a douche bag to give real good advice, unless it involves effect pedals, and even then it's always the same pedal for everything.
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This. I'm too much of a douche bag to give real good advice, unless it involves effect pedals, and even then it's always the same pedal for everything.
what you said was fine. it was reality.
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Old 08-30-2009, 06:58 PM
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Start stalking her.



She'll either get the hint, or a restraining order.



If it's the latter, that's okay too. I mean, who doesn't like a challenge?
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Start stalking her.



She'll either get the hint, or a restraining order.



If it's the latter, that's okay too. I mean, who doesn't like a challenge?
And remember kids: No means no. So do Mace and Tasers.
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um, no stalking. i'll talk to her tomorrow. and the whole thing isnt bothering me anymore. Tool, RATM, and the Floyd always make me feel better
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Dude go balls out and tell her you wanna go out with her. WHats the worst that could happen? Her say no? So what. I assume you go to public school. There are a ton of girls other than her. Ask her out, if you get rejected move on.
This move is for sissies. Real men just walk up to a woman, sweep 'er up in their arms, and plant a wet slobbery kiss right on her lips.

In front of her parents.

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(ok with me. if she's happy, i'm happy).
You are lying to yourself.

By the way, is she bisexual? This comment has me wondering, unless it was a typo...

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she(my friend) said it would be a really long time before she could get over her..
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um, no stalking. i'll talk to her tomorrow. and the whole thing isnt bothering me anymore. Tool, RATM, and the Floyd always make me feel better
Smoke some acid and shoot some weed.
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You are lying to yourself.

By the way, is she bisexual? This comment has me wondering, unless it was a typo...



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i know. and yes, she is bi.
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Old 08-31-2009, 12:53 PM
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personally, what i would do is drop a few hints, and if she doesn't pick up on them, come right out with it. worst that could happen is that she'd say no.

and imo, it's a bit stupid to give anyon a FOURTH chance.
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If this chick is this much drama now, imagine what you would endure if you two got together... go find someone else.
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yeah, drop it and move on. There's plenty more [and better] out there.
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If this chick is this much drama now, imagine what you would endure if you two got together... go find someone else.
+1.

The nutty ones will never stop being nutty. You'll be walking into a wall of drama until she gets bored and walks away from the entire situation.
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