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09-23-2008, 07:42 PM
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Every girl I've dated so far has had an ex-boy friend, who was a "somebody" ie (hockey star in the OHL now drafted in the NHL, Captins of the high school Football team and finaly a Ph'd Chemist. Further more these girls all had guy friends all in the same league.
Me a run of the mill no nothing white boy, who is shy and enjoy normal stuff, is, how do you say? Intimidated by these ex's and guy pals. The problem is I'm only 19, so these kind of problems are new to me. Infact lately everything has been new to me.
I haven't talked to anyone in RL about this subject for the simple fact I don't want anyone to know.
Are these girls just trying something alittle less high maintenance?
Am I less mascline then these dudes?
Do I set my standards to high?
Basically ***?
James_B
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09-23-2008, 07:49 PM
|  | User | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Coast | | | Either you are destined for great things, or they have you confused with somebody else.
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09-23-2008, 08:22 PM
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09-23-2008, 08:31 PM
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(It sucks being the safe guy) |
09-23-2008, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by David1234  They got dumped and are rebounding? And you're the 'safe' guy?
(It sucks being the safe guy) | true.
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09-23-2008, 08:43 PM
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But don't listen to me - my opinion is usually 100% opposite from everyone elses here.
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09-23-2008, 09:30 PM
| | ????????????? | | Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Lexington KY | | | What are you worried about? You're the "bad news," worthless loser that nice guys are always complaining about hot chicks going for.
You're in the catbird seat man. Embrace it.
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09-23-2008, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by James_B Are these girls just trying something alittle less high maintenance? | I don't know you, but this is what I'd bet. Don't be intimidated. In fact, don't even think about it. They're dating you for a reason. The end.
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09-23-2008, 11:32 PM
| | | | they're looking for someone who isnt a d***head.
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09-23-2008, 11:37 PM
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09-23-2008, 11:43 PM
|  | Online | | Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Sunapee, New Hampshire | | | Has any of them ever told you why they ended the relationship with you? Instead of asking us to guess, just ask one of them.
Some women like to sample. They prefer to check out a few different types of men before they pick one they trust to settle down with.
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09-23-2008, 11:52 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Altoona PA | | | Dont get hung up on why. It will ruin it. If you arent being used for anything that you can tell, then enjoy yourself and try to have fun, maybe she will have fun to and youll be happy. Everyone feels this way from time to time, even those other guys are sometimes jealous of a regular guy who is witty and scores the same girls as them without the prestige. Just go with it....ps every girl i ever gone out with make their exes sound better then they really are unless they were abused by them, its a little power play. |
09-23-2008, 11:56 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Altoona PA | | | How old are these chicks if your 19? they are old enough to date a phd? and a pro hocky player...isnt a phd 6-8 years of school? These girls were dating 25+ year olds in their pasts? Maybe they were just being used by older aholes and now want a relationship with someone compatible. |
09-24-2008, 12:53 AM
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09-24-2008, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted by RiseAgainst they're looking for someone who isnt a d***head. | What's the matter with us Deadheads? We don't just date hippie chicks that don't shave their legs or pits. Sometimes we actually date hot chicks.
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09-24-2008, 02:16 AM
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09-24-2008, 07:58 AM
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09-24-2008, 08:18 AM
|  | Unprofessional TalkBass Contributor | | Join Date: Dec 1999 Location: Brighton, England, UK, Europe | | | I sense a little bit of the old "double standard"....?
So if a man has lot of previous partners that makes him "experienced" , a "man of the world" etc.
All sorts of positive things.
Whereas a woman with the same experience is seen in a very negative light...?
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09-24-2008, 08:41 AM
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09-24-2008, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Mark Wilson Basically, You're 19. Stop worrying and live life. | +1 true
When I was that age I didn't wonder why girls broke up with me, I was concerned with getting the next one.
(Sometimes it was the following gig )
Ah, good times, good times,...
And I still had hair.  | | Thread Tools | Search this Thread | | | | 
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