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02-18-2009, 09:32 AM
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How do you guys feel about this? I'm sorta confused since mine is always talking bad about her ex yet she still talks to him. It's starting to irritate me.
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02-18-2009, 09:44 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Yuma, Az | | | Occasionally chatting, i.e. catching up once a year is a normal thing for people to do.
If she chats regular, I'd tell her to stop or you'll walk. Whether she realizes it or not, she's keeping her options open.
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02-18-2009, 09:44 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Steele City, NE | | | Tell her what you think and feel about the situation and see what she says. And figure out why what she is doing is irritating you.
Nothing wrong with talking to an ex-boyfriend though, if you ask me.
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02-18-2009, 09:54 AM
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02-18-2009, 09:56 AM
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"d### in a bottle, in case of emergency, break glass"
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02-18-2009, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by WalterBush Occasionally chatting, i.e. catching up once a year is a normal thing for people to do.
If she chats regular, I'd tell her to stop or you'll walk. Whether she realizes it or not, she's keeping her options open. | Bam. +1. |
02-18-2009, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted by NJL as chris rock used to say:
"d### in a bottle, in case of emergency, break glass" | why did you block out duck?  |
02-18-2009, 09:58 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Eh? | | | If she's friends with him, no problem. I still talk to my ex's too.
If she keeps saying bad stuff about him and yet she's still talking to him, it spells trouble.
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02-18-2009, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Muusers why did you block out duck? | i see what you did there..
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02-18-2009, 10:17 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Seattle, Wa | | | Thanks for the opinions guys. we've had chats about it. And she knows I don't like her talking to him. Since apperently he didn't treat her right and the fact her ex was very jelous when we got together and was boarderline physcho but has chilled out since then. I think I might just need to move on.
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02-18-2009, 10:25 AM
| | | | She's still banging him, oh well at least she has someone to cry to about it
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02-18-2009, 10:27 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada | | | I still live with an ex, and will continue doing so. We're great friends, and a booty call is never too far.
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02-18-2009, 10:35 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Pittsburgh | | | see, i cant agree in saying that you are allowed to tell her who she can and cant talk to... |
02-18-2009, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by sublimestylee How do you guys feel about this? I'm sorta confused since mine is always talking bad about her ex yet she still talks to him. It's starting to irritate me. | how about girls with no lives that always want to keep contact with their ex's even tho they're engaged? 
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02-18-2009, 10:51 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: St. Louis,MO | | | I dealt with this early on in my relationship. I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a girl who still feels the need to be friends with an ex. I was up front and very adamant about it with my current significant other. It's awkward, unnecessary, and inconsiderate unless they both have children together. No, I don't want to share any part of my relationship with a weirdo who has so few friends he can't respectfully go his separate way after a long period of time.
My advice would be to communicate and let her know where you stand right away. If it bothers you that much, that is...
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02-18-2009, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by CrispyDelicious We're great friends, and a booty call is never too far. | ...and if you possibly needed any more inspiration to cut off that cracked out friendship...
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02-18-2009, 11:14 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Toronto, ON | | | why don't you just man up and start talking to other women? If she has a problem, then you've got an argument.
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02-18-2009, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted by CrispyDelicious I still live with an ex, and will continue doing so. We're great friends, and a booty call is never too far. |   |
02-18-2009, 11:22 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Wichita, KS | | | I think it's perfectly reasonable to talk to an ex while in a relationship as long as you're honest about it, but if she's talking to the guy and talking badly about him to you than you can pretty much gaurantee she still has a thing for him.
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02-18-2009, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by eedre ...and if you possibly needed any more inspiration to cut off that cracked out friendship... | Funny thing is, when we hang out, people assume we are siblings, because we are so chummy, or that she is a lesbian.
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