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12-24-2008, 11:16 PM
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How do you accelerate falling out of love for someone whille maintaining a civil relationship ?
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12-24-2008, 11:17 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Bridgewater, Virginia | | | Tell them you need more personal space but you value them as a person and want to maintain a relationship of a "Friends Status."
Just be out and open with it. Let them know how you feel.
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12-24-2008, 11:20 PM
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for me.. its hard to get over someone if theyre still in your life
whether it be in person, internet etc
cutting the ties is usually the best way
at least for me, i could eventually come back and be on good terms with them with little to no awkwardness
it also depends on how long you were together
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12-24-2008, 11:25 PM
|  | Total Hyper-Elite Member | | Join Date: May 2000 Location: Groom Lake, NV | | | Just let go. If you can't do that, only think about the down side stuff. Don't try to stay friends, move on.
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12-24-2008, 11:26 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Bridgewater, Virginia | | | Why just completely drop the person? I mean, I've done it and I'll continue to but what if they want to maintain some sort of friendship with this person?
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12-24-2008, 11:28 PM
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12-24-2008, 11:36 PM
| | A Hard Rockin Lover of GREENBURST Moderator | | Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Where I lay my head is home | | | What if you live with them ?
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12-24-2008, 11:38 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Bridgewater, Virginia | | | Refer to my first post. It's like jumping in a pool of cold water. Just get it over with and it will all be better.
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12-24-2008, 11:44 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Cardiff, Wales, UK. | | | Not sure you can accelerate falling out of love.
IMO its the one thing in life you can't control.
Sort yourself out first, the friendship will come later if the bond is strong enough.
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12-24-2008, 11:55 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Parker, CO | | | Question.
Does the other person know the relationship is rocky/not on solid ground already? |
12-25-2008, 04:02 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Houston, TX | | | what if its not actually a relationship? what if its just gettin over someone?
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12-25-2008, 06:21 PM
|  | User | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Coast | | | Marry them.
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12-25-2008, 06:23 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: St. Paul, MN | | | Don't put out.
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12-25-2008, 06:35 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Charlotte, NC | | | Start smoking crack. Don't shower for days at a time, and stop cleaning your house/apartment. Invite some street people to come and stay with you. Loose lots of weight and stop brushing your teeth.
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12-25-2008, 07:57 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Fredericksburg, Virginia | | | Imagine them having sex with a centipede.
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12-25-2008, 08:12 PM
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Oh! You mean YOU need to fall out of love with HER. That's altogether different, and my method will not work for that. Never mind.
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12-25-2008, 08:24 PM
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12-25-2008, 08:26 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Bridgewater, Virginia | | | I honestly don't see why you need our help with this. If you can start off as strangers, become friends and then fall in love, why cant you end off as in love, become friends, and if you want, be strangers.
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12-25-2008, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Araillac I honestly don't see why you need our help with this. If you can start off as strangers, become friends and then fall in love, why cant you end off as in love, become friends, and if you want, be strangers. | Imaging the person having sex with a centipede is much easier and takes less time. But it cannot be un-thought.
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12-25-2008, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Araillac I honestly don't see why you need our help with this. If you can start off as strangers, become friends and then fall in love, why cant you end off as in love, become friends, and if you want, be strangers. | Would you let go the best thing that ever happened in your life that easily?
I live in Brazil, she leaves in Norway. She says its useless to try, that we should forget each other. But how can i forget someone who provided me the best moments of my life? That made 2 nightless weeks near the North Pole so magical...
I may give up after doing my best. But I wont before doing the best I can, the little I can. If I fail, I want at least the piece of mind of knowing I tried. A woman that never had a guy to do something crazy for her is a sad woman, and I wont let that happen.
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