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Old 11-27-2008, 08:55 PM
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How do you feel about girls using the word 'dude'?

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Here I was thinking I'd never post a thread about girls, but I really need to say something about this.

Nothing annoys me more than a chick calling me dude. I don't know why, but it just bothers the crap out of me. I think it's really because 'dude' is the man's word to refer to each other. It's like a primitive thing, and I honestly feel like it promotes brotherhood or something ridiculous like that.

When I hear a girl use it, though, it's almost like she's just mocking me, or doesn't think much of me.

For what it's worth, I get onto my brother for saying dude when he speaks to our father because, I dunno, I think it's weird. Maybe I'm just starting to get annoyed with the word. Or maybe I'm thinking too much and should go have some Thanksgiving leftovers.
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Old 11-27-2008, 08:57 PM
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I don't mind if it's a friend, but dude is the last thing I want to be called by my significant other.
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I hate when a girl says dude, it sounds....weird
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Maybe you're thinking too deeply into it. She might be trying to act cute, or maybe she just feels like she's 'one of the guys.' Dude is such a casual word - I really doubt she's saying it to disrupt your whole dudiverse.
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i dunno dude, sometimes i find it sexy when a dudette calls me dude.
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Old 11-27-2008, 10:47 PM
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'Bout the same as when guys call women "chicks"
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Old 11-27-2008, 10:53 PM
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Old 11-27-2008, 10:59 PM
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Hey dude, don't call me dude.

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I couldn't care less. Most women my age wouldn't use it anyway, so it's kind of a moot point.
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Doesn't bother me one bit. I have a friend who does it, has done as long as I can remember.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:15 PM
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I've got no problem with a woman calling me "dude". If I had a kid your age, however, I would have a problem with him calling me "dude"...

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i dont know if all of you would have a problem with dude that say you have a problem with dude depending what dude youre talking to. cause i say dude a lot but when i say it, it just kind of fits in and flows and i say it so fast people dont really ever catch that im calling them dude like 50 times.
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'Bout the same as when guys call women "chicks"
How about when guys call chicks dudes? I assume it's one sign you're getting dangerously close to the dreaded friend zone.
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not really dude. i call girls dudes all the time and they're completely cool with it. but then again i can call people dude like 50 times without them noticing im calling them dude
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Old 11-28-2008, 01:45 AM
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Old 11-28-2008, 01:46 AM
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I think it is a little odd hearing a Female say "Bro" Speaking to someone other then their Brother or Brother type figure.
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i don't care if chicks say dude. i say dude to basically everyone, bosses, people i don't know, parents, people working at stores, etc etc.

usually i'll follow up with a "nyah see, sha sha sha!!!" in old school wiesel gangster snitch voice also.
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It's just weird.
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Old 11-28-2008, 06:06 AM
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