I am ****ed....

luzceloffan · #1 03-16-2013, 09:56 PM

So by now I am teaching in an average private university of my town....I am 30 years old....single...no childs...so...everything was normal until I got this class where She is....she is not miss universe, but is so cute...she always smiles and she turns her face red when I tell her a joke, then when I realized I was totally screwed I fall for her...I already asked her to go on a date she didnt refuse....she just told me to wait while test season ends....I know isnt ethical...but I really like her....any advices????

blastoff99 · #2 03-16-2013, 09:57 PM

(grabs popcorn)

**smperry** · #3 03-16-2013, 09:58 PM

DO NOT.

sarcastro83 · #4 03-16-2013, 10:00 PM

I'm guessing she's a student?

Forbidden fruit until she's no longer a student. NO TOUCHING.

God speed, man. That situation sounds AWFUL.

iamlowsound · #5 03-16-2013, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by blastoff99

(grabs popcorn)

Pass me some of that.

lowsound

fdeck · #6 03-16-2013, 10:04 PM

Somebody once said that the problem with college teaching is that your students will be perpetually 19, while you keep getting older and older. You just have to figure out how to manage your behavior in class, or find another profession. If you're in a university town and haven't already met binders full of single women your age who are not students, then you need to get out more.

4dog · #7 03-16-2013, 10:07 PM

Yup, your screwed, i suggest a ball peen hammer, leaves a cool, perfectly round indention in your forehead, and some alone time.

**colcifer** · #8 03-16-2013, 10:09 PM

What sarcastro said. Wait it out, brother.

hbarcat · #9 03-16-2013, 10:10 PM

Go for it! You only live once and you are already in your 30's. Do you think you'll be young forever?

You'll regret it for the rest of your life if you let this golden opportunity pass you by while you just stood there with your mouth hanging open.

Remember, it's always best to act decisively to get what you want now, then beg foregiveness later, if necessary.

Be sure to keep us abreast of events as they happen.

One Drop · #10 03-16-2013, 10:13 PM

Don't do it.

luzceloffan · #11 03-16-2013, 10:17 PM

well...she is about 22...its a class for people that already work and want to study the university...so i just see her once a week..sundays....and i am almost done with them, since is the last semester i will be with them there is no more subjects related with me.

DeathFromBelow · #12 03-16-2013, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by hbarcat

Go for it! You only live once and you are already in your 30's. Do you think you'll be young forever?

You'll regret it for the rest of your life if you let this golden opportunity pass you by while you just stood there with your mouth hanging open.

Remember, it's always best to act decisively to get what you want now, then beg foregiveness later, if necessary.

Be sure to keep us abreast of events as they happen.

Yeah, go go GO for it! Anyone who says "no" are just jelly...

Edit: She's 22? Tap that thing with a venegance bro!

paste · #13 03-16-2013, 10:40 PM

Your situation reminds me of a recent Howard Stern show I watched where some teacher marries a student. Except this dudes about 45 (and looks like he's in his 30's or late 20's) and screwing a HIGH schooler. I wont pass judgment in your case as ive seen couples happily together with age differential of 10+. Also isn't there some law that prohibits teacher-student relationships, regardless if college or high school?

Anyone who wants to see the whole interview:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-IaY9H-LzAU

GregC · #14 03-17-2013, 12:28 AM

Don't come crying if you lose your job over this. And they're not always easy to come by these days, in case you hadn't heard.

elgecko · #15 03-17-2013, 12:30 AM

Don't stand so close to me

Munjibunga · #16 03-17-2013, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by hbarcat

Go for it! You only live once and you are already in your 30's. Do you think you'll be young forever?

You'll regret it for the rest of your life if you let this golden opportunity pass you by while you just stood there with your mouth hanging open.

Remember, it's always best to act decisively to get what you want now, then beg foregiveness later, if necessary.

Be sure to keep us abreast of events as they happen.

Yike! You have a bit of a sadistic streak. But I'm with you. I mean, at thirty, the OP can always go back to school to start on a new career path. He might end up with a wife who can support him while he learns a new trade.

Munjibunga · #17 03-17-2013, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by luzceloffan

well...she is about 22...its a class for people that already work and want to study the university...so i just see her once a week..sundays....and i am almost done with them, since is the last semester i will be with them there is no more subjects related with me.

Well there you go. You can live off her income while you look for a new job.

champbassist · #18 03-17-2013, 02:29 AM

If I'm not wrong, student teacher relationships are illegal in many places around the world. Not to mention the obvious risks you're taking professionally, ethically and even socially. Even if you're OK with all the risks, I'd suggest you wait until she's no longer a student.

Downunderwonder · #19 03-17-2013, 02:53 AM

Even at 22 she is barely adult, just enough enough to know to tell you "not yet". Tread carefully. The excitement of the forbidden fruit will be gone once she is no longer your student. Good luck with the ripened forbidden fruit.

Evil Undead · #20 03-17-2013, 03:03 AM

Don't do it. Besides being unethical, she's already told you not yet, which means not at all in woman speak.