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11-28-2008, 02:22 PM
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11-28-2008, 02:23 PM
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11-28-2008, 02:24 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Bowling Green, Ohio | | | ah crap man, im sorry.
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11-28-2008, 02:29 PM
| | Member | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada | | | Correction: You just found out your EX-girlfriend cheated on you.
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Originally Posted by fitbass3p  Sir, without any exaggeration, that is the nicest looking bass that I have ever laid eyes on. Congrats. | |
11-28-2008, 02:30 PM
|  | Online | | Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Sunapee, New Hampshire | | | Dang bro, bummer. I'm not a hugger, but I would slap you on the back and say it's going to be just fine in a few days.
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11-28-2008, 02:33 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: the Netherlands, Amsterdam | | Quote:
Originally Posted by T.O.Bass Correction: You just found out your EX-girlfriend cheated on you. | i dunno man, i mean, i still love her, it's just, i don't think i can trust her anymore  |
11-28-2008, 02:34 PM
| | Member | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada | | | Wat een kut. Echt waar.
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Originally Posted by fitbass3p Sir, without any exaggeration, that is the nicest looking bass that I have ever laid eyes on. Congrats. | |
11-28-2008, 02:34 PM
| | Member | | Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada | | | Dude, I've been there. You'll not be able to look at her the same way again.
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Originally Posted by fitbass3p Sir, without any exaggeration, that is the nicest looking bass that I have ever laid eyes on. Congrats. | |
11-28-2008, 02:37 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Miami, FL | | | Sorry to hear man. If you are still with her-Go to the gym, go out play football/soccer, or something outdoors and then go out with the guys...keep yourself busy. Get away from the computer and from your girlfriend for a few hours or however long it takes, talk it through with her and well all I can tell you that nobody will understand the situation better than you...so I'm not going to tell you to cut her loose, get revege or whatever. But you definitely need to re-evaluate your relationship.
By the way, many single guys love your area to meet women-as do in my location-if you become single, capitalize on that.
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11-28-2008, 02:50 PM
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11-28-2008, 03:01 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Chicago, IL | | Quote:
Originally Posted by T.O.Bass Correction: You just found out your EX-girlfriend cheated on you. | +1. Find a hotter one.
I told my GF if she ever cheated on me I would never speak to her again. I'd probably find out who the dude was and take out my frustrations on him as well.
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11-28-2008, 03:07 PM
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On a serious note, I've been there. It's gonna take time. Whatever you decide to do, make sure it was something that you decided. Dig?
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11-28-2008, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Armueller2001 +1. Find a hotter one.
I told my GF if she ever cheated on me I would never speak to her again. I'd probably find out who the dude was and take out my frustrations on him as well. | In all fairness, the other guy is not to blame.
1) He got a free lunch. Don't blame him.
2) He might not have known the girl was cheating on someone. Still don't blame him I'm also a guy.
Unless the other guy is, was, a friend of the one getting cheated, then go take out your frustrations on him as well. |
11-28-2008, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Muusers i dunno man, i mean, i still love her, it's just, i don't think i can trust her anymore | OK Brother, it's time to spend a little time evaluating what YOU want. As you get old, you learn that there are very few absolutes in life. This situation IS NOT one of them. It all depends upon the two of you, how did you find out? Did she tell you? If she did, and was remorseful, then you need to spend some time talking. If she didn't and she's defiant when you ask, well then, don't waste any more time on her. Listen to your inner voice, not your anger. I've been there and I've been the one who strayed, life isn't neat, it's not clean or defined.
Best of luck
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11-28-2008, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Muusers i don't think i can trust her anymore | You can't.
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11-28-2008, 03:49 PM
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11-28-2008, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by SBassman You can't. | QFT |
11-28-2008, 04:02 PM
|  | Guess what?! I got a fever! | | Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: San jose, Cal | | | have sex with her and her mom.
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11-28-2008, 04:26 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Rochelle, Illinois | | | Women sleep around. Men sleep around. We are saps to think that we can willfully rewire our ape brains and be monogamous. I used to think we could but I no longer think so.
Either accept the fact that your girlfriend cheats and come to an understanding that you will do the same whenever you feel like it, or be prepared to search far and wide for a woman who will deny herself her basic human instincts and stay faithful to you (and you agree to do the same). Many couples successfully do this but I believe they are in the minority.
I wouldn't bother. Just relax and go with the flow.
IMO.
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11-28-2008, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Muusers it's just, i don't think i can trust her anymore | You Can't!
Don't take it too hard man. I saw somewhere that 50% of marriages today FAIL.
Using that, I figure that gives us all a coin flips (50/50) chance that the chicks we are with right now ain't gonna last. | | Thread Tools | Search this Thread | | | | 
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