I need a little moral support

**Thor** · #1 01-04-2008, 12:02 AM

Ok,

I'm usually the happy and humorous guy.

Now, a lot of bad sh***t has happened this week, and I am
about at my wits end. I can deal with the chores and stuff,
but I can't deal with being the only one of three being healthy
and functional in the family.

I put the recording project I was working on on hold, and I put the band projects on hold. My mates all were ok with that.

I now am going into one of those bad depressions that I hate,
I posted some of those in the Lobby before, but, part of
dealing with it is talking about it.

When I get depressed, it is like a pain in my chest, a lump
I can't get rid of.

Some guys helped me with this last time,(mr.moonjam, diggler, njl, etc. and thanks!).

Man, the highs are great but the mental lows sark.

If I seem weird around the board, I apologise in advance.

Peace

Thor

Jiggybass · #2 01-04-2008, 12:11 AM

I know exactly what you mean here, I've had an especially bad streak lately, and have been pushed far down mentally.

I just keep telling myself that the good times are worth the pain we continuously encounter. I see it as right now I'm the hangover after an night of drinking, while things feel really crumby, looking back it was worth the pleasure, and look forwards to the like.

Hang in there bud, you'll pull yourself out soon enough

kserg · #3 01-04-2008, 12:13 AM

We still love you buddy...

**Thor** · #4 01-04-2008, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by kserg

We still love you buddy...

Thanks, both of you guys.

Haven't seen posts from either of you for a while.
Thanks for checkin' in.

Man, it's just hurting hard today. maybe its
just the cold. I don't know.

Just feels like the soul folded
And I got nowhere to go.

**Thor** · #5 01-04-2008, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by kserg

We still love you buddy...

My drummer has 2 cowbells

Valerus · #6 01-04-2008, 12:28 AM

It'll be better in the future. Just remember that.

iamlowsound · #7 01-04-2008, 12:30 AM

You are on the right path to thinking yourself out. Remember, things can always be worse and things are going to get better sooner than you think.

lowsound

superbassman2000 · #8 01-04-2008, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by kserg

We still love you buddy...

+1

stuff like this happens to me too and it sucks--just know that we all are here to help you get through it!

**smperry** · #9 01-04-2008, 12:34 AM

Sorry to hear this...I've been there. I'm sending you my cell number...let's talk tomorrow. You've already got my email.

Marshall

**Thor** · #10 01-04-2008, 12:39 AM

Thanks guys.

Wow, can believe you guys are up this late!

I am just seriously hurting, one of those lows you
feel like a slug in the chest.

I''m gonna try to sleep and make it go away. Sleep
does not come easy any more without stupid anxiety
dreams (about 45 cowbells in the drum kit)

Argg

Hey, luv you guys, thanks T

**Thor** · #11 01-04-2008, 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by smperry

Sorry to hear this...I've been there. I'm sending you my cell number...let's talk tomorrow. You've already got my email.

Marshall

we are way overdue
tomorrow for sure
that would make my day!!

kserg · #12 01-04-2008, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Thor

When I get depressed, it is like a pain in my chest, a lump
I can't get rid of.

PS, any time i have anything in my chest, i go for teraflu... stuff is tasty and GREAT! I suppose it could work for depression as well.

We all have our lows once in a while. I wish i could deal with it like you (Actually talk about it). But I am too much of a man to do that, I am manly I tell you!!! MANLY!!!!!

MakiSupaStar · #13 01-04-2008, 01:09 AM

PM sent buddy. Seriously. You'll be fine. Don't let your mind think itself into circles. Oh yeah, whatever you do, don't play golf. It'll just piss you off.

JNowiski · #14 01-04-2008, 01:10 AM

i drink when i feel low, and i drink when i feel fine too...so that's no good i guess.

also i'm trying to cut back alot on my drinking. if i miss one group therapy session i'll be a rehab failure...and that can't be good.

kserg · #15 01-04-2008, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by MakiSupaStar

PM sent buddy. Seriously. You'll be fine. Don't let your mind think itself into circles. Oh yeah, whatever you do, don't play golf. It'll just piss you off.

"Golf is a good walk spoiled".

Sonic_Death · #16 01-04-2008, 01:12 AM

I can't say I have ever really spoken to you Thor, but I have been seeing you around TB for years and years now and I am fairly confident that you're a great guy.

I am sure you'll end up fine, and you have support from all of us. Hang in there buddy.

MakiSupaStar · #17 01-04-2008, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by kserg

"Golf is a good walk spoiled".

Walking!

Who said anything about walking? How are you going to hold the 12ver walking? I mean it can be done, but it's so much more fun sliding out in golf carts.

**Thor** · #18 01-04-2008, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Sonic_Death

I can't say I have ever really spoken to you Thor, but I have been seeing you around TB for years and years now and I am fairly confident that you're a great guy.

I am sure you'll end up fine, and you have support from all of us. Hang in there buddy.

Thanks so much Bro.

kserg · #19 01-04-2008, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by MakiSupaStar

Walking!

Who said anything about walking? How are you going to hold the 12ver walking? I mean it can be done, but it's so much more fun sliding out in golf carts.

They didn't have those things per-say in Mark Twain's days...

I suppose i could modernize it and say it ruins a perfectly good drive?

Those things are fun... Don't ask how i know that as i never golfed in my life... All i will say is, apartment repair people shouldn't leave garages open at night... Rest, I must claim the 5th...

Yngwie 4String · #20 01-04-2008, 01:43 AM

Whenever Im down I look to DIO for inspiration:

DIO SAYS YOU ROCK!!

Feel better now bro?

I thought you would.