I needed a relief (long post,beware!)

machine gewehr · #1 12-07-2007, 11:45 AM

First of all,I hate whining but you guys are the only people I can whine so you'll have to listen.

First of all this is my 5th year in university and I've completed only 25 credits and I need 135 to graduate.My dads very upset and this is giving me a great amount of pain just to even think about it.

Secondly there was this girl I liked for 1.5 years and I haven't like a girl as much as I did her for 5 years and I've been single in this 5 years.Last friday I was listening to Finally Free of DT and something popped in my brain.I had to tell her how much I like her,so I went home and sent a message through "facebook".God,how I hate these sites!

I though she was into me too as she was looking at me anywhere she saw me,I "DO" agree it was really dumb to send a message like that but I wasn't clearly thinking and was "possessed" by the song.She didn't even sent a reply and this happened right at the time when I decided to put my life together.That devastated me,I'm feeling terrible which is very unlikely me.

Last night I found my first love ever,first girl I ever held a girl's hand.Send a message and 5 mins. ago she told me she does not remember me.What the heck is going on with my life?

Feeling that bad and trying not to make my parents feel it is another pain.....

Ahhh ok.I just needed a relief,to tell these to some one as I kinda locked myself in time and can't whine/cry to even my best friends or whatever,I just needed to tell this stuff to someone so thanks for listening.

Also,this is like a joke next to whats going on with "Spanky"'s life,so right now,forget about me and say a prayer for the fella.

Flabby1 · #2 12-07-2007, 12:05 PM

Well as far as the lack of college credit's you accumulated over the 5 years it sounds like you just need to apply yourself more. have you not even being going to class?
if not, start going and do the work.

As far as the girl whether she remembers you or not is irrelevant, she's not interested, so unless you're going to an all girl college then you should be able to find a girl that is interested, and trust me that's much more enjoyable then crying over one you can't have.

Jeremy Crockett · #3 12-07-2007, 12:11 PM

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First of all this is my 5th year in university and I've completed only 25 credits and I need 135 to graduate.My dads very upset and this is giving me a great amount of pain just to even think about it.

1) There is no magic bullet for this. Sack up and get the job done. Trust me on this, I know all about wasting time in college.

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Secondly there was this girl ...

2) You have no time for this, see point #1.

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Also,this is like a joke next to whats going on with "Spanky"'s life,so right now,forget about me and say a prayer for the fella.

3) You do seem to have some perspective. See point #1

Do well, son. Make your parents proud.

middy · #4 12-07-2007, 12:12 PM

I know it's hard when you're young and romantic and foolish, but don't get hung up on women. Seriously, most of the problems young men run into with violence and depression and suicide stem from failed relationships.

Also, if you were my kid and I was paying your tuition you would have been cut off last year.

syciprider · #5 12-07-2007, 12:19 PM

25 creds in 5 years?

It's nice to have that parental scholarship huh?

Tegzsa · #6 12-07-2007, 12:22 PM

5 credits per year.

It's a record!

Study now, women later. I doesn't sound like you need any more distractions.

need4mospd · #7 12-07-2007, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by syciprider

25 creds in 5 years?

It's nice to have that parental scholarship huh?

Some of my friends averaged near that much in ONE year. Of course they are losers with no life, but I'll get some high paid gigs from those losers later on in life.

machine gewehr · #8 12-07-2007, 01:34 PM

I know its a record.I had sleeping problems that made my life misarable,I was a sleep walker for at least 2 years.Then I started to drink just to sleep and....well...you know the rest.

Also I now realize all the mistakes I've done (I hope) and I'm on a new track.If it weren't for my parents I'd be sleeping in the streets but they were (are) very very understanding of my problems since my childhood.Yea I was a crazy %&/+^!! with no "off" switch.

Also middy,I'm glad I'm not your son.

syciprider · #9 12-07-2007, 01:46 PM

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Some of my friends averaged near that much in ONE year. Of course they are losers with no life, but I'll get some high paid gigs from those losers later on in life.

I hope you're right about your prediction.