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Old 01-25-2008, 08:13 PM
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is bisexual, would you consider it cheating if she got with another girl?

Serious question. No, it does not involve me (unfortunately), but somebody I know is in a similar predicament.

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Old 01-25-2008, 08:13 PM
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Not if she lets me watch... and tape... and take pictures... screw it... She got to let me join...
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Old 01-25-2008, 08:14 PM
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For record, i had a bi GF... it was kinda weird...



3way relationships don't work out too well...
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Old 01-25-2008, 08:15 PM
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Hmm. Depends.
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Old 01-25-2008, 08:17 PM
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Depends.

For the record, threesomes very rarely work in any relationship. The obvious solution is to go outside of the relationship for the threesome.
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Old 01-25-2008, 08:21 PM
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Depends on how I feel about her. If it's a serious g/f and it's full on love, then yes, it's cheating. If it's a g/f that I'm just seeing and not full on in love with, then I would push to join in and get some sandwich action going.
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Old 01-25-2008, 08:39 PM
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Cheating is going behind your back without telling you. I don't care if it's with her dog it's cheating. But if you establish ground rules where you make that ok, then it's not cheating, even if others outside of the relationship perceive it that way. However, if you establish those ground rules, and she does it anyway, then she's bad news. I've dated girls like that in the past, and I've always said that if she wants to get with a girl, that's fine, but I either need to be involved, or at least watching. If she can't handle that then there's no point in being in a relationship with her. That relationship led to a few interesting situations to say the least. Funny enough, I actually ended up cheating on her with a korean chick so go figure. What the hell do I know anyway?
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Funny enough, I actually ended up cheating on her with a korean chick so go figure. What the hell do I know anyway?
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My gf isn't bi or anything, but I've known people who have gone down this road before. NONE of the relationships lasted.
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Totally cheating.


Been there, she did that.



It hurt just as much as if she were to cheat on me with another guy.
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Old 01-25-2008, 09:34 PM
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Yup cheating. You needn't be sniffin' 'round that anyway.
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Old 01-25-2008, 09:37 PM
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Depends on your agreements about the relationship is. Perhaps you have an open relationship that includes additional partners for both of you, perhaps not. So the best answer I can give is it depends as you have not given me enough info to answer
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It's a slippery slope any way you slice it...
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It's a slippery slope any way you slice it...
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It's a slippery slope any way you slice it...
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It's a slippery slope any way you slice it...
slippery being the key word there.
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Old 01-25-2008, 10:35 PM
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i have and i considered it cheating. not to say i didn't have threesomes due to it, but yeah. i'm not into it. i don't think i would ever date another bi girl(if i was single i would totally have more threesomes though).
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It totally depends on the arrangement you two have and ground rules you've established. Cheating is when it's a violation of the rules you've agreed upon.
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