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08-30-2009, 09:03 PM
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Hello everyone, I've been a long time viewer, however I just signed up for an account and I am really loving the website!
But I had a quick question that I was hoping you people could clear up for me, I know it's probably a repetitive question of sorts around here judging by some of the threads I have seen, but anyway.
I've known this girl for about 3 weeks now, and we've gone out a couple of times, hooked up as well. The problem is I don't know if it is to early to ask her basically if she wants to be exclusive seeing is how we have only known each other for 3 weeks like I said before.
We get along great, she has met some of my friends and seems to like them as well, and I think it is pretty clear she likes me as well, like I stated before we have hooked up on more then one occasion.
So i was wondering what are some of your thoughts on this subject, I know its probably been beat to death around here before, but sorry if it has! |
08-30-2009, 09:07 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan | | | Sure. If she says "no" then you never had her. It is best to get it out of the way early.
Post pictures of this girl.
*edit* Nevermind. 3 weeks is a tad fast.
...Still post pictures, tho.
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08-30-2009, 09:10 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Bugtussle | | | You're rushing...why be in such a hurry?
Besides you'll know if she wants to be with you "exclusively" it aint rocket science.
Not all, but some women take you trying too hard as a sign that they can manipulate you.
I'm not at all saying that is your case......dont try too hard.
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08-30-2009, 09:48 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Cali | | | ok, thanks for the responses guys, however I'm still a bit confused on what to do, the situation makes it even worse as there is limited time, and I'd rather not get into why.
anyone else have some input? |
08-30-2009, 11:19 PM
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08-30-2009, 11:20 PM
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08-30-2009, 11:34 PM
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08-30-2009, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Thunderscreech  Why so Relationship Threads? | School is still out?
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08-30-2009, 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted by chobbs ok, thanks for the responses guys, however I'm still a bit confused on what to do, the situation makes it even worse as there is limited time, and I'd rather not get into why.
anyone else have some input? | Going to jail, eh? I've been in a similar situation.
Ask her out. |
08-31-2009, 12:13 AM
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08-31-2009, 02:56 AM
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You're getting advice from some old geezers it seems. 
3 weeks is a long enough.
You're 20, time is always limited.
Rush in and out of love... carpe diem and all that jazz.
Go for it, make moves, be the sensitive dude with puppydog eyes who serenades her. Let her know you want to be in a relationship with her.
Good times will be had, bad times will be had.
Pull down your pants and slide down the ice.
Figure of speech... I think. 
When I was around that age... I never wasted 3 weeks on these things. And I still don't.
And I was not an assertive person... I even was a bit shy.
You like her, she likes you.... what are you waiting for?
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08-31-2009, 03:00 AM
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08-31-2009, 03:00 AM
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Originally Posted by KeithBMI ...Still post pictures, tho. | .
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08-31-2009, 05:04 AM
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Go for it.
But as we all know, no pics, no possible girlfriend.
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08-31-2009, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted by René_Julien
You're getting advice from some old geezers it seems.
3 weeks is a long enough.
You're 20, time is always limited.
Rush in and out of love... carpe diem and all that jazz.
Go for it, make moves, be the sensitive dude with puppydog eyes who serenades her. Let her know you want to be in a relationship with her.
Good times will be had, bad times will be had.
Pull down your pants and slide down the ice.
Figure of speech... I think.
When I was around that age... I never wasted 3 weeks on these things. And I still don't.
And I was not an assertive person... I even was a bit shy.
You like her, she likes you.... what are you waiting for?
GO GO GO | I like your advice the best 
but seriously thanks to everyone for the responses!! |
08-31-2009, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted by chobbs
But I had a quick question that I was hoping you people could clear up for me . . .
| What do you mean "you people" 
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08-31-2009, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted by PSPookie What do you mean "you people" | Guys that are great in getting and dealing with chicks.
That's why the OP joined a forum full of bassists to pose that question.
How far am I off?
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08-31-2009, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by chobbs ok, thanks for the responses guys, however I'm still a bit confused on what to do, the situation makes it even worse as there is limited time, and I'd rather not get into why.
anyone else have some input? | Same situation here man. Just forget about time relax and take what comes. Trust me at the end of every summer/semester I meet someone I'm crazy about. I feel pressured by the lack of time and thus act stupidly. Say **** off to the pressure and enjoy yourself with her. Hang out the amount of time you're both cool with, give her her space. And I'm sure you're over exaggerating what will happen when 'time runs out'. You've fooled around, you've gone out - she likes you, now's the time to chill and let what comes come. |
08-31-2009, 03:21 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: West Covina (LA), SoCal | | | OK, I'll use my relationship as an example. My now gf and I had known each other for only a month or so, hanging out like once a week. We both liked each other. One night we hooked up, well not really, but we spent the night together, no sex. We spent all weekend making out and getting naked. A month later we had seen each other everyday. People asked me ' So is Keighley your girlfriend now?" and I'd say "You know, I dont really know, we havent really talked about it or anything, but we really like each other" Around that time we just started introducing each other to our friends as "My girlfriend/my boyfriend" What Im saying, is theres no need to define things, unless you feel the need to define them.
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08-31-2009, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by René_Julien
You're getting advice from some old geezers it seems. |
Jeez Rene' you got me pegged
I should stick to advise on what knee brace works best....maybe I can settle an argument over ibuprofen vs. acetaminophen LOL
Hey, that reminds me of a joke.
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