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12-10-2009, 09:12 PM
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Today I saw my girlfriend hugging some other dude....
Didn't say anything... but I don't know how to handle it?
Have you ever been in this position before? How did you handle it? Need advice.....Thanks,
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12-10-2009, 09:15 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Texas | | | What sort of hug was it?
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12-10-2009, 09:15 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: New-brunswick | | | It's a hug... You know the thing they do to say "hello" or "bye" or "goodluck" or etc etc etc
You gotta accept she has friends of both sex and actually hugs them.
at least, that's the way I see it. |
12-10-2009, 09:15 PM
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These are important questions.
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12-10-2009, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Ziltoid  It's a hug... You know the thing they do to say "hello" or "bye" or "goodluck" or etc etc etc
You gotta accept she has friends of both sex and actually hugs them.
at least, that's the way I see it. | +1 |
12-10-2009, 09:17 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan | | | Slept with the girl at the guy's house while he was away.
Just because there is a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
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12-10-2009, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by BassClef 2010 Today I saw my girlfriend hugging some other dude....
Didn't say anything... but I don't know how to handle it?
Have you ever been in this position before? How did you handle it? Need advice.....Thanks,
BassClef | Must....control.....green ..eyed.....monster..
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12-10-2009, 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted by KeithBMI Slept with the girl at the guy's house while he was away.
Just because there is a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
I am terrible. | Yes you are. And so is she.
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12-10-2009, 09:21 PM
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12-10-2009, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by KeithBMI Just because there is a goalie doesn't mean you can't score. | Amen
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12-10-2009, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by KeithBMI Slept with the girl at the guy's house while he was away.
Just because there is a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
I am terrible. | That's it.
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12-10-2009, 09:44 PM
|  | Hammer On! | | Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Babbling Brook | | | Women that have 'true' male friends, or guys they love without sexual involvement are not the norm. Wish more women were like that...
A loving embrace from her to a guy is nothing to you-provided there's no sexual involvement. Just my 2˘.
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12-10-2009, 09:45 PM
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12-10-2009, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by TBird1958 When it was my ex-wife..................
All I could think was SUCKER! | I thought you were gay? |
12-10-2009, 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted by TBird1958 When it was my ex-wife..................
All I could think was SUCKER! | For me, it hurt at first, then I felt sorry for both of them.
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12-10-2009, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Holy War I thought you were gay? | He's not, he just dresses in the drag for the lulz.
At least I think he does...
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12-10-2009, 09:59 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New England | | Botherd me for a few seconds - and then when I came to - he was such a pummeled bloody mess - that I didn't feel so bad after all. 
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12-10-2009, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Honk'n_down-low Botherd me for a few seconds - and then when I came to - he was such a pummeled bloody mess - that I didn't feel so bad after all. | I dunno, I just called The Russian. Problem Solved.
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12-10-2009, 10:13 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: May 2009 Location: kansas city, mo | | | TBird has a girlfriend...swing and a miss on gblt(and the obvious sub sects) rights and stereotypes.
Ot, I wonder why not ask her? As long as you didn't see them while you were stalking her, I don't see the issue.
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12-10-2009, 10:49 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Prince Edward Island | | | Get over it.
Being the jealous type isn't going to win you any brownie points with anyone, male or female. Being the guy who's not worried about it and doesn't give a crap makes the guys think you've got your head on your shoulders and comfortable with the people in your life and they wont mess around with you anyway, and the girls will be attracted to you because you're aloof and come off as the cool guy who's not worried and has a hint of a lack of interest.
Guys respect a dude who doesn't care about what girls think about them.
Girls want to get with guys who show only the most vague amount of interest.
Showing emotion over something as small as a hug shows that you feel threatened by the other guy. The other guy will take this as a sign that he is a threat to you, and your woman will see it as you being weak and give her ideas.
Take the high road even if it bugs you, drink a beer and brush it off.
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