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12-17-2012, 10:51 AM
|  | Pardon my driving, I'm reloading | | Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Diego/LA | | | Your next conversation with her should go like this....
You: Hey, what's up?
Tease: Nuthin, what's up with you?
You: Have you talked to Ray? (inserted for unnamed friend)
Tease: No, but he texted me. Have you?
You: Yea, I think that he's at the clinic, getting more cream for some rash or whatever he keeps getting "down there." (laughing)
Tease: Ewwww....you busy tonight? |
12-17-2012, 11:11 AM
|  | Registered User | | | | | I would make your move before your friend, however it is her choice and unlike in the movies a lot of real world situations I have came across a girl if she knows both like her will actually choose neither and go out with someone completely new. Or she may just play into the competition too depending on the girl...you know how some of them like playing games.
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12-17-2012, 11:32 AM
| | | | Ahh, I'm going to go against the grain here and recommend stepping aside if it looks like they're supposed to be together. There are other women in the world.
Other than that, I'd suggest settling it the way true gentleman have settled differences throughout the ages: A hotdog eating contest.
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12-17-2012, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by spade2you  What would Bluewine do? | Probably introduce the topic of age into a discussion where age is totally irrelevant.
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12-17-2012, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by LiquidMidnight Ahh, I'm going to go against the grain here and recommend stepping aside if it looks like they're supposed to be together. There are other women in the world.
Other than that, I'd suggest settling it the way true gentleman have settled differences throughout the ages: A hotdog eating contest. | Wait, aren't we more interested in her doing that? |
12-17-2012, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by tastybasslines Ummmm, no. It means that you put friends before women, who are always replaceable, (unless it's your wife or girlfriend).
If it were my friends, we would both stay away. | Or so you think.
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12-17-2012, 11:52 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Brisbane, Australia | | | I was in this situation years ago with a friend (and bass player in our band). We both dug this chick, but he went all out, probably would've run me over if I'd gotten in the way. They've been married for about 15 years and have 2 kids. We're still good friends, and his wife finds the whole story highly amusing.
As others have said, if you're serious about this girl, then nothing should get in your way. If she's just a girl you both of you think is "cute", then who cares? If you really have a thing for this girl, then you wouldn't even be asking this question - you'd step on your friend's corpse just to be near her. |
12-17-2012, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by i_got_a_mohawk If a friendship can't handle some competition, I wouldn't say it's all that solid.
It's not like someone going after someone elses wife or long term girlfriend . . . | Spot on!
we discussed this, in a way, in one of my education classes at college. Competition is perfectly healthy, no need to always tip-toe around each other.
Be the alpha-chimp, and may the odds be ever in your favor.
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12-17-2012, 12:44 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: USA; Mitchellville, Maryland | | | I say screw dibs. Both of you give her a shot and she'll make her choice.
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12-17-2012, 12:45 PM
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12-17-2012, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by EricF The Eiffel Tower, however, is acceptable. | High fives are acceptable, but NO EYE CONTACT!!
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12-17-2012, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Phalex High fives are acceptable, but NO EYE CONTACT!! | Or, show him who's boss! Look him dead in the eye and say "Do you feel me?"
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12-17-2012, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Kwesi Or, show him who's boss! Look him dead in the eye and say "Do you feel me?" | OK man! I am NOT doing a Devils three way with you!!
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12-17-2012, 03:01 PM
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12-17-2012, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Phalex OK man! I am NOT doing a Devils three way with you!! | Wha, no high five after you're done? |
12-17-2012, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Kwesi Or, show him who's boss! Look him dead in the eye and say "Do you feel me?" | BEST. POST. EVERRRRR!  |
12-17-2012, 05:21 PM
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12-17-2012, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by shackled Good luck. 
Ultimately it will be her decision... | +1. George and Eric were able to maintain. And I would suggest keeping the Bros before the other word I can't put here. I'm better at this than most but a good guy to guy relationship can last forever. Many Gal guy things despite the death do us part etc are kind ephemeral. |
12-17-2012, 05:30 PM
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12-17-2012, 05:46 PM
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