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05-14-2009, 12:43 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Minneapolis, MN | | | Tips for dating someone possibly out of my league?
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Here's my obligatory life story/help thread. Woohoo.
I've recently become friends with a friend of mine from elementary school via facebook. I had a crush on her (this is when I was 8 or so haven't seen her in over 10 years) and apparently so did she. We've talked for a while, and she invited me down for her bday weekend next weekend 
Normally, I'd have no issues with this, but looking at her facebook pics, she's insanely beautiful. I think I'm decent looking myself, I'm popular with the ladies and all, but I'm no model like she is. Any tips for situations like this? I'm just thinking..she's the one who confessed to liking me (then and now) and invited me to see her, so I must have something going for me off the bat right?
And no, I'm not going to post pics right now.. |
05-14-2009, 12:48 AM
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05-14-2009, 12:50 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Minneapolis, MN | | | I know, I'm not saying I'm not confident. I am. Never arrogant. |
05-14-2009, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted by coolrunner989  I know, I'm not saying I'm not confident. I am. Never arrogant. | Then you're good to go. If you can forget about the league concept and just go for it, you'll be ok. Women put less emphasis on looks in a partner than men do (a generalization, I know, YMMV).
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05-14-2009, 01:02 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Los Angeles | | | When you go: smell good, dress for the occasion, speak well, listen more than talk, be friendly, and ask for a date (gotta close the deal). |
05-14-2009, 01:58 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan | | No pics no girl.  |
05-14-2009, 02:04 AM
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Sorry, mandatory.
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05-14-2009, 02:14 AM
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05-14-2009, 02:31 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Ohio | | | [quote=coolrunner989;7393994...she's the one who confessed to liking me (then and now) and invited me to see her, so I must have something going for me off the bat right?
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I would compare this to being the guy at the intersection that's holding up traffic & ticking everyone else off.
How long does the light have to be green before you start moving?
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She said It's a bit pornographic. Then again, I don't suppose you would crash your ship for a nice girl in sensible shoes.
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05-14-2009, 02:42 AM
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You know what this calls for . . .
Oh yes, time for a DIAB.
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05-14-2009, 04:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Stumbo When you go: smell good, dress for the occasion, speak well, listen more than talk, be friendly, and ask for a date (gotta close the deal). | You owe Stumbo a beer after this post.
Its more about attitude then looks if you're not a yeti.
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05-14-2009, 04:48 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sacramento, CA / Missoula, MT | | | No pics, No advice.
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05-14-2009, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted by coolrunner989 And no, I'm not going to post pics right now.. | How 'bout now?
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05-14-2009, 05:06 AM
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05-14-2009, 05:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Stumbo When you go: smell good, dress for the occasion, speak well, listen more than talk, be friendly, and ask for a date (gotta close the deal). | Thanks. If you're in the area lemme know and I'll get you that beer.
The DIAB comment made me laugh 
Here is a picture where she still has a decent amount of clothes on, and the one I see myself getting in the least amount of potential trouble for. She has others that are a bit more raunchy.  |
05-14-2009, 05:40 AM
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05-14-2009, 05:41 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Minneapolis, MN | | | exactly. |
05-14-2009, 05:44 AM
|  | User | | Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Coast | | | If the confident, positive attitude thing isn't working, switch to begging. Oh- and obnoxious persistence can pay off, too.
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05-14-2009, 06:02 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: On The Bayou | | | You are correct...you are not in her league. Forget about it! Send her info to the rest of us. |
05-14-2009, 06:02 AM
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