Turn offs on a first date

[Kwesi]

Originally Posted by chuck norriss

Face in her phone, milks the date for free food/drinks, sex on first date is a turn off. I like the chase.

So are you saying you wouldn't have sex on the first date or you would and you wouldn't call back? I know a few guys that do the later and honestly it sounds kinda messed up unless there's more of a reason than "sex happened."

[chuck norriss]

Originally Posted by Kwesi

So are you saying you wouldn't have sex on the first date or you would and you wouldn't call back? I know a few guys that do the later and honestly it sounds kinda messed up unless there's more of a reason than "sex happened."

Yes.
Sometimes sex is degrading. Can't explain.

[SBsoundguy]

You like the chase? You must be a masochist!

[pocketgroove]

Originally Posted by jmattbassplaya

I tip $2 on any meal less than $10...

Yep, me too...20% is generally what I tip.

[Ziltoid]

Originally Posted by Kwesi

So are you saying you wouldn't have sex on the first date or you would and you wouldn't call back? I know a few guys that do the later and honestly it sounds kinda messed up unless there's more of a reason than "sex happened."

I'll be honest (and drunk) kwesi, I've not talked to my ex once sincr we broke up. I saw her for the first time today and it did hurt on some level I can't really explain, it's just weird. But! Yesterday I've had three tapping occasions I DID REJECT because it didn't felt right(too easy) or whatever. ****'s not all black and white. Relationships and one nights are just weird dynamics.

[SBsoundguy]

A woman who is overly picky or specific about their order.

[hover]

Originally Posted by SBsoundguy

A woman who is overly picky or specific about their order.

REALLY?

[SBsoundguy]

Originally Posted by hover

REALLY?

Yup.

Who the hell goes to McDonalds an asks for saltless fries? It sounds as ridiculous to me as asking for a "liter of cola."

[The Owl]

Originally Posted by SBsoundguy

Yup.

Who the hell goes to McDonalds an asks for saltless fries? It sounds as ridiculous to me as asking for a "liter of cola."

The over-pickiness can be a HUGE red flag, to me it screams, CONTROL ISSUES!,

[Tat2dHeart]

Originally Posted by SBsoundguy

A woman who is overly picky or specific about their order.

Originally Posted by SBsoundguy

Yup.

Who the hell goes to McDonalds an asks for saltless fries? It sounds as ridiculous to me as asking for a "liter of cola."

Originally Posted by The Owl

The over-pickiness can be a HUGE red flag, to me it screams, CONTROL ISSUES!,

While I understand that you wouldn't want to get involved with a control freak (some do for specific reasons but most don't), please understand that some of us are picky/specific about our food orders for compelling reasons. I have food allergies and I've always thought that the flashing red lights and sirens on the ambulance, the gasping for air, the spinning of my surroundings before the total blackness, and all the accoutrements of the emergency room were a far harsher buzzkill than my being very specific about how to handle my fish in the kitchen so it doesn't get cross-contaminated by your crab-crusted lobster.

[Eric Perry]

Originally Posted by Tat2dHeart

While I understand that you wouldn't want to get involved with a control freak (some do for specific reasons but most don't)...

Hehe

[Tat2dHeart]

Originally Posted by Eric Perry

Hehe

I love it when someone "gets it."

[Eric Perry]

Originally Posted by Tat2dHeart

I love it when someone "gets it."

"it" is what makes me tick!

[Tat2dHeart]

Originally Posted by Eric Perry

"it" is what makes me tick!

tick tock


Back on topic - I find it really annoying when a date tries to "preach" at me, regardless of the topic. A discussion is generally two-way.

[SBsoundguy]

Originally Posted by Tat2dHeart

While I understand that you wouldn't want to get involved with a control freak (some do for specific reasons but most don't), please understand that some of us are picky/specific about our food orders for compelling reasons. I have food allergies and I've always thought that the flashing red lights and sirens on the ambulance, the gasping for air, the spinning of my surroundings before the total blackness, and all the accoutrements of the emergency room were a far harsher buzzkill than my being very specific about how to handle my fish in the kitchen so it doesn't get cross-contaminated by your crab-crusted lobster.

I would never even bother ordering fish at a restaurant if that was the case. It sounds too risky to me.

[JamesGoodall]

Originally Posted by Tat2dHeart

I have food allergies and I've always thought that the flashing red lights and sirens on the ambulance, the gasping for air, the spinning of my surroundings before the total blackness, and all the accoutrements of the emergency room were a far harsher buzzkill than my being very specific about how to handle my fish in the kitchen so it doesn't get cross-contaminated by your crab-crusted lobster.

I share your pain, though for me they have to be super careful not to touch your fish to my crab-crusted lobster. Yet they always do. Always. Plus its kind of awkward to explain that if the date is going to progress any further later that night, she cant order fish..

Ahh, and for me it's hogging the conversation. This goes both ways. If we cant sit and talk without one of us completely battering the ear of the other, it wont work. That and bad breath. Overly inflated sense of self. The casual use of any illicit substances besides marijuana.

[will33]

Having a date at a McDonalds would be a huge turnoff for me, regardless of the saltiness of the fries.

I'm a ways down there on the economic ladder, but I could still find a way to do ya better than McD's.

[hover]

Originally Posted by Eric Perry

"it" is what makes me tick!

I SAID COUGH DAMNIT!

[hover]

Originally Posted by will33

Having a date at a McDonalds would be a huge turnoff for me, regardless of the saltiness of the fries.

I'm a ways down there on the economic ladder, but I could still find a way to do ya better than McD's.

C'mon, it's not luvin, it's ba ba bah baah baaaaaah, luvin. And nothin says luvin like a McChicken wedged into a McDouble (aka MCGangBang)

[Eric Perry]

Originally Posted by hover

I SAID COUGH DAMNIT!

Hehe!