Turns Out I Really am the King of Stupidity

Fontaine · #1 05-25-2009, 08:55 PM

Well to elaborate on this theory we have to skip back to last week.

A little over a week ago, I met a girl through the most unbelievable coincidence that I have ever seen, and it seemed to be going pretty good. But of course I did something stupid that I ALWAYS seem to do that really messed things up (or so I think I did).

So two nights ago I was talking to her (text messaging) while I was hanging out with a friend having a few beers. My friend wanted to go visiting a few clubs and of course I was going to go as well, so I asked her did she want to meet up for a drink or something and she said she would meet us down there. So we get down there and while in a different club I message her asking her where shes to, and then go meet up with her. At this point everything is going great we where just talking for a while and had a couple drinks.

She went out for a while with one of her friends so I stayed in the club and was talking to some of her other friends for a while (my buddy went to a different club because he didn't really like the band). So while I was talking to one of the friends and she mentions that the girl (the one I like) likes me, I kind of knew this already and well was relieved to know for sure, and I kind of just mentioned to her friend that I felt the same way.

So she came back and told me that they are heading out to a different club and kind of grabbed me to go along, so I finished my beer and went with her. When we got to the club it was empty so we just stayed outside for a while with no real big plans. While she was talking to some of her friends outside they decide to go to a restaurant so I went with them as well, I was walking with her alone the way and just basically just trying to make her laugh and I don't really remember what I was saying because I was a bit drunk. While at the restaurant I met up with my friend and was at the table across from her and her friends because there table was full, so we where just talking about the night.

A little while after that she got up to leave and so did we, she just kind of said goodbye and gave me a hug and went on her way.

Now yesterday I wasn't talking to her or anything but when I was today (text message) it took her a really long time to get back to me and she seemed kind of distant in a weird way and I don't really know what I might have done. Piecing together the night is difficult when all your buddies where in a different club for the whole night...I'm all confused

(I'm just venting off my frustration, thanks for reading)

CrispyDelicious · #2 05-25-2009, 09:05 PM

1. She's not interested.
2. Don't waste your time or you will be played like a fiddle.
3. She's not interested.

Really dude, you met a chick, hung out with her, and you think because you two get along she wants you?? No offence, but you are fooling yourself.

Fontaine · #3 05-25-2009, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by CrispyDelicious

1. She's not interested.
2. Don't waste your time or you will be played like a fiddle.
3. She's not interested.

Really dude, you met a chick, hung out with her, and you think because you two get along she wants you?? No offence, but you are fooling yourself.

no, well her friend told me that she likes me, and we are suppose to be going out to dinner later this week.

Deluge Of Sound · #4 05-25-2009, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Fontaine

no, well her friend told me that she likes me, and we are suppose to be going out to dinner later this week.

What are you, 12?

CrispyDelicious · #5 05-25-2009, 09:18 PM

Going out to dinner? As in, you're going to take her out and spend your money on her?

Kenbuntu · #6 05-25-2009, 09:18 PM

Yeah, im going to have to stick around a bit longer to see how this turns out...

Fontaine · #7 05-25-2009, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Deluge Of Sound

What are you, 12?

lol nice one.

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Originally Posted by CrispyDelicious

Going out to dinner? As in, you're going to take her out and spend your money on her?

well generally yes.

bongomania · #8 05-25-2009, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Deluge Of Sound

What are you, 12?

I think he is, actually. We all had discover girls sometime!

CrispyDelicious · #9 05-25-2009, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Fontaine

well generally yes.

What was my number 2? Oh yeah:

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Originally Posted by CrispyDelicious

1. She's not interested.
2. Don't waste your time or you will be played like a fiddle.
3. She's not interested.

Fontaine · #10 05-25-2009, 09:37 PM

I believe that she is the kind of girl that would just basically shut it off at the beginning if she wasn't interested. I like to believe I can tell when someone is interested in me or basically don't give a damn.

I honestly don't think she would "play me like a fiddle".

Kenbuntu · #11 05-25-2009, 09:43 PM

Ok, so i guess this thread is done.

Honestly, kids that ask similar questions to the one you're asking already have their mind made up. They want to pursue said girl, and just want to hear it from AT LEAST 1 person before they "decide" to follow "that person's plan".

Your minds already made up, now grow a pair and follow through with your plan even if it fails. That's the only real way you'll learn.

Fontaine · #12 05-25-2009, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Kenbuntu

Ok, so i guess this thread is done.

Honestly, kids that ask similar questions to the one you're asking already have their mind made up. They want to pursue said girl, and just want to hear it from AT LEAST 1 person before they "decide" to follow "that person's plan".

Your minds already made up, now grow a pair and follow through with your plan even if it fails. That's the only real way you'll learn.

oh the problem is not wondering if I should go for her or not, I'm trying to recall if I did something stupid on saturday night.

5StringBlues · #13 05-25-2009, 09:49 PM

Just go out with her and stay sober.You have nothing to lose but your load.

Grizzly700 · #14 05-25-2009, 09:52 PM

It's probably her time of the month. I have been in this situation before. See how it goes later in the week.

Kenbuntu · #15 05-25-2009, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Grizzly700

It's probably her time of the month. I have been in this situation before. See how it goes later in the week.

****ING BRILLIANT!

MadMan118 · #16 05-25-2009, 10:08 PM

If you wanna do it, then do it .
Besides trying to figure out a females motives is a vain cause.

popinfresh · #17 05-25-2009, 10:13 PM

Holy crap, thanks for the life story!

WashburnBasser · #18 05-25-2009, 10:23 PM

Cool story bro.

tplyons · #19 05-25-2009, 10:26 PM

Go for it. Don't break it off. Worst case scenario, you're where you would be tomorrow in a few days.

Best case scenario, you've got a new ladyfriend.

blizzard · #20 05-26-2009, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Fontaine

Now yesterday I wasn't talking to her or anything but when I was today (text message) it took her a really long time to get back to me and she seemed kind of distant in a weird way and I don't really know what I might have done. Piecing together the night is difficult when all your buddies where in a different club for the whole night...I'm all confused

Umm you were texting her... text messages aren't exactly the most personal form of communication/its hard to really judge how someone is feeling from a text. She could just be busy which is why she isn't replying... just sit it out...