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12-02-2007, 11:33 AM
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Were you ever attracted to personality before looks in a relationship ?
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12-02-2007, 11:38 AM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Harpers Ferry WV | | | My wife. |
12-02-2007, 11:52 AM
| | Banned | | Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada | | Quote:
Originally Posted by MAJOR METAL  Were you ever attracted to personality before looks in a relationship ? | yes. |
12-02-2007, 11:56 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Tomkins Cove, New York | | | That's a big 10-4 |
12-02-2007, 12:12 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Modesto, CA | | | Honestly, no.
If that first swoon when looking at her doesn't occur then the attraction is not there. If that attraction is not there then it won't be ever.
However, if there is no personality to back it up there is no chance either.......
I remember the first time my wife walked into the room, breathtaking!!!!!!
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12-02-2007, 12:36 PM
| | | | Yes. My first serious girlfriend and I just totally understood each other and had such similar tastes that she could have looked like anything and I'd have fallen in love with her. I've got steadily more shallow over the last few years though. |
12-02-2007, 01:33 PM
|  | Registered User | | Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Rochelle, Illinois | | | ALWAYS
Good looking women are 10 cents a ton, but relatively few of them have the personality I like. I'm only attracted to women who carry themselves with self assuredness. Only after I see an aura of confidence do I look at the rest of the package, because a good looking woman who's incapable of doing things for herself or doesn't know what she wants is no fun.
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12-02-2007, 01:38 PM
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EXAR pedals rep for North & Central America | | Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: PDX, OR | | | I once based a major relationship on personality over looks; it was great at first, a meeting of the minds- but after a couple of years, after our scintillating dialog had kind of dried up, the looks thing became an issue, and contributed to the end of the relationship.
Both qualities are important. |
12-02-2007, 01:39 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Ontario | | | Currently.
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12-02-2007, 01:51 PM
| | Banned | | Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Glendale & La Jolla, CA | | | Nope.
Shallow and proud. |
12-02-2007, 01:54 PM
| | Banned | | Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Detroit | | | Only once. The internet is interesting when you meet people through cyberspace. |
12-02-2007, 01:56 PM
|  | is, against all odds, still a scuba viking. | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Alta Loma, California | | | No. Never. No way.
I'm probably the shallowest person you will ever meet.
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12-02-2007, 02:11 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: St. Louis,MO | | | Tried to "become" attracted to someone because of their personality... didn't work. I wasn't in the least physically attracted, so that one was dead in the water after a few dates.
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12-02-2007, 02:14 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Wilmington, NC | | | Definitely. If she doesn't have the personality, the looks don't mean anything to me.
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12-02-2007, 02:20 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jackson, MO | | Quote:
Originally Posted by hbarcat ALWAYS
Good looking women are 10 cents a ton, but relatively few of them have the personality I like. I'm only attracted to women who carry themselves with self assuredness. Only after I see an aura of confidence do I look at the rest of the package, because a good looking woman who's incapable of doing things for herself or doesn't know what she wants is no fun. | Not true... they can be plenty of fun.
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12-02-2007, 02:40 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Kentucky | | | I was...for a while...
then I realized how much of a jerk he was...
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12-02-2007, 02:48 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: St. Louis,MO | | Quote:
Originally Posted by hbarcat ALWAYS
...doesn't know what she wants... | +100
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12-02-2007, 03:27 PM
|  | prefers electric miles davis | | Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Los Angeles, CA | | | definately. i've met a lot of really cool chick's that are not hott, yet i'd for sure date them.
it's not all about looks, you gotta have stuff in common and be able to tolerate each other. |
12-02-2007, 03:39 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Minneapolis (Chicago Native) | | Quote:
Originally Posted by markjazzbassist ... it's not all about looks, you gotta have stuff in common and be able to tolerate each other. | No but ...
You have to be with someone that you are at least somewhat attracted to -- otherwise, all you have is a "buddy" instead of a significant other.
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12-02-2007, 03:44 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Wilmington, NC | | | Exactly. Here's the metaphor I use: Looks are just icing on the cake, but what fun is a cake without icing?
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