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Old 03-26-2013, 10:18 AM
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At What Child's Age Should You Stop Walking Around The House Naked?

My daughter is now 3 1/2. My wife walks around the house naked when my daughter is around, mostly when either getting ready in the morning, or at night, for example, she likes to walk around with sweats and no shirt sometimes. If it means anything, she has large breasts. I walk around naked too, but only when getting dressed or getting out of the shower, and I cover my testicles with a shirt or something so my daughter can only see my bum. My dad just mentioned to me that my daughter should not be seeing my package anymore.

I don't usually care, but I've started to think that perhaps we should not do it so much anymore. My wife says that it's no big deal and her mother walked around naked (they were swingers) until my wife was 10 even. I tend to agree, but I wonder if there are any negative repercussions to this. Both my wife and I are meaty at this time, my wife more so than me, and I wonder if my daughter will sub consciously try to emulate our/her look?

FWIW, my daughter doesn't point anything out, I.E. it's seemingly natural to her, but when won't it be?

How do you guys feel about this?
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:27 AM
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IMO It depends on your views. The more of a big deal you make of nudity, the more taboo it becomes. It's just a human body. My family does the same. My daughter is 7 and my son is 4. This is normal to them.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:27 AM
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I'm totally sexist in this regard , your wife may , you may not.

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Old 03-26-2013, 10:29 AM
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I wouldn't be concerned, but I find typical North American prudishness regarding nudity to be silly.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:29 AM
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the moment you recognize and feel it may be an issue. that could be now, it could be never.

I don't think there's a handbook / textbook / psychologist-establishment answer to this. Up to your discretion.

Are you a nudist? I am in my house at times, lol. Doesn't make it pretty.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:36 AM
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My wife walks around the house naked .. in the morning, or at night, for example, she likes to walk around with sweats and no shirt sometimes. If it means anything, she has large breasts. How do you guys feel about this?
well....it would be easier to give you som kind of advice if you could give us a picture or two. The size of her breasts may be very important here.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:38 AM
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well....it would be easier to give you som kind of advice if you could give us a picture or two.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:51 AM
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:56 AM
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I wouldn't be concerned, but I find typical North American prudishness regarding nudity to be silly.
Tend to agree with this, but I don't have kids, so there'll be a long line of people here to tell you how my opinion doesn't count.
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Old 03-26-2013, 10:58 AM
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My daughter is now 3 1/2. My wife walks around the house naked when my daughter is around, mostly when either getting ready in the morning, or at night, for example, she likes to walk around with sweats and no shirt sometimes. If it means anything, she has large breasts. I walk around naked too, but only when getting dressed or getting out of the shower, and I cover my testicles with a shirt or something so my daughter can only see my bum. My dad just mentioned to me that my daughter should not be seeing my package anymore.

I don't usually care, but I've started to think that perhaps we should not do it so much anymore. My wife says that it's no big deal and her mother walked around naked (they were swingers) until my wife was 10 even. I tend to agree, but I wonder if there are any negative repercussions to this. Both my wife and I are meaty at this time, my wife more so than me, and I wonder if my daughter will sub consciously try to emulate our/her look?

FWIW, my daughter doesn't point anything out, I.E. it's seemingly natural to her, but when won't it be?

How do you guys feel about this?
How do I feel about it ? Your family makes mine look absolutely asexual in comparison.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:03 AM
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:07 AM
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Do it until it feels weird. A well-adjusted view of physiology is critical to freeing young people from being trapped in weird hang-ups, inhibitions, and social ignorance. At some point, it'll just be creepy and it'll make sense to stop.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:07 AM
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There, someone had to say it!
Without showing her face, all I can provide is a pic of her bending over the bathtub with her new tattoo at the time.
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There, someone had to say it!
Post #6, you were beaten to the posts there.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:08 AM
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Do it until it feels weird. A well-adjusted view of physiology is critical to freeing young people from being trapped in weird hang-ups, inhibitions, and social ignorance. At some point, it'll just be creepy and it'll make sense to stop.
OK, makes sense. If I urinate and she wants to see my "nu nu" as we call it, is that weird? At this point, I've been turning away from her.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:09 AM
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I stopped walking around totally naked in front of my daughters when the oldest was around 3. My wife stopped walking around my son naked when he was about the same age.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:10 AM
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OK, makes sense. If I urinate and she wants to see my "nu nu" as we call it, is that weird? At this point, I've been turning away from her.
Basic discretion is also part of the lesson.
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:10 AM
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Without showing her face, all I can provide is a pic of her bending over the bathtub with her new tattoo at the time.
LOL! I hesitate to ask where this new tattoo is!

Oh, never mind! Let's just leave it at that!
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Old 03-26-2013, 11:16 AM
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My youngest is twentyfive.
Maybe I should try walking around the house nude.
It may prompt him to find his own place.
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