What do you do when...

RedCoatMonster · #1 05-17-2008, 12:31 AM

a girl likes you alot more than you like her? I mean I like the girl alot, but she REALLY likes me and its wierd cause Im used to getting screwed around.

jiant. · #2 05-17-2008, 12:39 AM

you post about it on talkbass. congratulations, your work is done.

RedCoatMonster · #3 05-17-2008, 01:05 AM

Suddenly everything makes sense, the universe is in balance, and I am born again in your wisdom. Thank you.

steve21 · #4 05-17-2008, 01:07 AM

Use that inordinate love to get more nookie.

RedCoatMonster · #5 05-17-2008, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by steve21

Use that inordinate love to get more nookie.

I could do that, good idea. She likes me so much I farted on her and she didnt even get mad and wasnt offended at my suggestion of a romp in the back of my mom's ford truck.
*dueling banjos*

steve21 · #6 05-17-2008, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by RedCoatMonster

I could do that, good idea. She likes me so much I farted on her and she didnt even get mad and wasnt offended at my suggestion of a romp in the back of my mom's ford truck.
*dueling banjos*

I don't get what dueling banjos are for unless you two are related, but yeah dude... hit it. then possibly quit it? your call.

RedCoatMonster · #7 05-17-2008, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by steve21

I don't get what dueling banjos are for unless you two are related,

Ford truck, middle of the country, in oklahoma...eh screw it.

deeman12 · #8 05-17-2008, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by RedCoatMonster

a girl likes you alot more than you like her? I mean I like the girl alot, but she REALLY likes me and its wierd cause Im used to getting screwed around.

Just start being passive around her. And give her signals that you dont like her. And if worst comes to worse, tell her to F off.

soong · #9 05-17-2008, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by RedCoatMonster

she didnt even get mad and wasnt offended at my suggestion of a romp in the back of my mom's ford truck.
*dueling banjos*

dude.

Croox · #10 05-17-2008, 09:03 AM

tear it up for as long as you can. you said you've been screwed over before, so that was your deposit in the karma bank, I say make a withdrawl, take advantage of her for as long as you can.

cutthroatmolloy · #11 05-17-2008, 09:36 AM

i have no experience in such a situation, but i would think that just telling her that youre not that interested in her would be the way to go. if she turns into a raving lunatic then tell her to depart in a nasty manner

BassChuck · #12 05-17-2008, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Croox

tear it up for as long as you can. you said you've been screwed over before, so that was your deposit in the karma bank, I say make a withdrawl, take advantage of her for as long as you can.

(yes....... a chorus of 'amens' raise up to a glorious cresendo.) And who knows, you might even come to love the girl... or a reasonable facsimile of love.

I'm trying to think if there is an age for a male when the sage advice given above would not be a good idea, and the only thing I can come up with is "under the age of 12".

Life is to be enjoyed. Your fault if you miss out.

MJ5150 · #13 05-17-2008, 10:35 PM

Be honest with her every step of the way. Do not try to inflict damage on this woman because of someone who hurt you in the past. That isn't going to get you anywhere, and will only make the world a worse place. Try improving your life and hers instead of giving in to your carnal desires at her expense.

Maybe the rest of y'all are just kidding around, and having fun with your "hit it and quit it" comment. If so, I apologize for being such a "square". If all y'all are serious, what a bummer. Living and treating people this way is no way to live. Messing with peoples emotions, especially with something like sex, is not cool. Doing so under the premise of karma is also way off the mark. You should never withdraw from the karma bank to hurt someone.

Now if she is totally cool with it, and doesn't mind joining in, then forget everything I said.

-Mike

jonathan_matos5 · #14 05-17-2008, 10:42 PM

tread carefully she could be cool but she could turn nuts on you quick

Depth_Charge · #15 05-17-2008, 10:55 PM

You invite her to all the places where the chics are that you do like. The "do like" crowd will see her persistence and will be unable to resist the urge to attack you just to block her. Welcome to the game

funkalicious101 · #16 05-17-2008, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Croox

tear it up for as long as you can. you said you've been screwed over before, so that was your deposit in the karma bank, I say make a withdrawl, take advantage of her for as long as you can.

So.... you dont really get karma?

Bob Clayton · #17 05-18-2008, 12:06 AM

umm...

this may seem like a REALLY off the wall idea.. and i apologize. i'm not good at these types of things.

but... what about talking to her and explaining that you fear that you don't like her as much as she likes you.

never know, it could work.

Depth_Charge · #18 05-18-2008, 03:00 AM

"I'm just not that into you" works a charm.

Jazz Ad · #19 05-18-2008, 03:40 AM

Don't exploit nice girls. It's a very sure way to transform them into bitches.
Not a service to the community.

superfunk47 · #20 05-18-2008, 07:49 AM

Anybody remember that he said he liked her a lot too? Or am I the only one?

Helloooo?...hellooo...helloooooo...

If you like her and she like you, take her out sometime. See where it goes. If you're not enjoying yourself, get out of it respectfully. If you are enjoying it and she is too, then you can hit it.