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Old 06-27-2008, 10:08 PM
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Who has it worse in American society: Ugly men or ugly women?

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I got into this debate the other day. I argued that ugly guys probably have it worse because it's women who hold the "power" in choosing who they date. The opposing argument was that ugly women have it worse because guys can use humor, charm, or wealth to attract women. The example that was used was that you see very rich, old, ugly men with hot 20-somethings but you don't see rich, ugly women with good looking young men.
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Old 06-27-2008, 10:15 PM
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I got into this debate the other day. I argued that ugly guys probably have it worse because it's women who hold the "power" in choosing who they date. The opposing argument was that ugly women have it worse because guys can use humor, charm, or wealth to attract women. The example that was used was that you see very rich, old, ugly men with hot 20-somethings but you don't see rich, ugly women with good looking young men.
Ugly women. Sorry. Women sleep with personality, charm, wealth, humor as much as they do physical appearance. Guys, not so much.
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Old 06-27-2008, 10:25 PM
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I got into this debate the other day. I argued that ugly guys probably have it worse because it's women who hold the "power" in choosing who they date. The opposing argument was that ugly women have it worse because guys can use humor, charm, or wealth to attract women. The example that was used was that you see very rich, old, ugly men with hot 20-somethings but you don't see rich, ugly women with good looking young men.
Well I'm an ugly guy who has humor and charm, but not money. And I frequently had no luck at all with women. The ugly guys you see with hot young chicks are generally the rich guys. Rich ugly chicks do get hot young guys too. You just don't generally see it as often.

You've got to go pretty far down homely road before a woman looks so bad that no guy will do her. For a guy to be equally out of luck all it takes is a less than impressive job.
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I'm an ugly guy, so I'd say women.
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Old 06-27-2008, 11:18 PM
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I'm an ugly guy, so I'd say women.

so, how's our self esteem feeling today?


incidentally, is this why you're a death metal fan?


heh, that reminds me of a sbemail in which strong bad stated that "you'd better be ugly Dane, or fat. The gift of death metal does not smile on the good looking"

in fact, here's a link.

http://www.homestarrunner.com/sbemail141.html
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Old 06-27-2008, 11:23 PM
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so, how's our self esteem feeling today?


incidentally, is this why you're a death metal fan?


heh, that reminds me of a sbemail in which strong bad stated that "you'd better be ugly Dane, or fat. The gift of death metal does not smile on the good looking"

in fact, here's a link.

http://www.homestarrunner.com/sbemail141.html
Hah! It's not so much self esteem, I don't care. I like death metal because I like, death metal. BR300TAL? Anyway, it was supposed to meant in a joking matter. I don't ONLY listen to death metal
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i'm ugly. very ugly by U.S. standards. people don't even see that i exist, literally.
so, surprise surprise...i'll say women.
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Old 06-27-2008, 11:29 PM
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I'd say women.

*edit* Is there a reason you specified American society? Seems like it'd be the same for most societies. Just throwin that out there.
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God invented alchohol so us ugly people would stand a chance of meeting up & procreating.
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You've got to go pretty far down homely road before a woman looks so bad that no guy will do her. For a guy to be equally out of luck all it takes is a less than impressive job.
Funniest thing I've ever heard in my life... I'm at a bonfire in rural Indiana (extreme Redneck!) This guy shows up with a very homely woman. She goes up to the house to use the potty and this guys' buddies start giving him hell about how ugly she is. This ended the night: "She's so ugly, anybody'd f..... her is just too dang lazy to j....off."
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Funniest thing I've ever heard in my life... I'm at a bonfire in rural Indiana (extreme Redneck!) This guy shows up with a very homely woman. She goes up to the house to use the potty and this guys' buddies start giving him hell about how ugly she is. This ended the night: "She's so ugly, anybody'd f..... her is just too dang lazy to j....off."
That's very naughty - I hope I remember it in the pub later.
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It was a bit more profane than that - even if you insert the naughty words where they go...
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Old 06-28-2008, 12:11 AM
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I would say ugly men

I always see ugly women on the back of crotch rockets
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Funniest thing I've ever heard in my life... I'm at a bonfire in rural Indiana (extreme Redneck!) This guy shows up with a very homely woman. She goes up to the house to use the potty and this guys' buddies start giving him hell about how ugly she is. This ended the night: "She's so ugly, anybody'd f..... her is just too dang lazy to j....off."
I definitely need to remember that one!
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Ugly women have it worse. Ugly men do alright because, in my experience, women also weigh personality, confidence, humor, etc etc etc just as equally as with a guy's looks. So if you're not very good-looking, you can make up for it with your charm. It's easier for an ugly guy to get a date than for an ugly girl to get a date. Case in point: I'm an ugly guy and I have a HOT girlfriend.
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God invented alchohol so us ugly people would stand a chance of meeting up & procreating.
I thought God invented dimmer switches do ugly people would have a shot in the dark.

I'd think women have it worse then men. Ugly men can always buy love.
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Old 06-28-2008, 01:02 AM
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Ugly women have it worse. Ugly men do alright because, in my experience, women also weigh personality, confidence, humor, etc etc etc just as equally as with a guy's looks. So if you're not very good-looking, you can make up for it with your charm. It's easier for an ugly guy to get a date than for an ugly girl to get a date. Case in point: I'm an ugly guy and I have a HOT girlfriend.
I agree because we're in the same boat Brother!
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